What's all the fuss about anal?

The initial penetration of the head of his cock wasn't real bad (I'd been pegged by my wife numerous times) and as he penetrated deeper there was equal feelings of pressure and pleasure. The feelings of pleasure soon were at 100% as he began driving his entire 9 1/2" cock deep into my ass. Then he deposited a huge warm load inside me while my wife was sucking my cock the entire time and I was in heaven. It was and still is an amazing feeling to be fucked in the ass...I love it!

 

I'm glad your wife supports this

 

Anal sex to me engulfs many different aspects. And these are just my thoughts on it.... others may have very different perspectives.

First, I've been attracted to a woman's ass (in general) since a very young age. I think the shape is very attractive. It's also the way a woman's ass sways back and forth when she walks. To me, it's a turn-on, and something that turns me on is something I want to experience. Perhaps similar to gals with luscious lips, or luscious breasts, or also a "cameltoe" pussy.

Anal is also (or has been) considered taboo. Call it naughty, or wrong, or forbidden....it goes against the grain of typical thinking and that too is a turn-on for me. I have a naughty side. Lol

The anus is also very tight with lots of nerve endings. So the feel of my cock in a gal's ass is very different than that of a vagina. It goes back to that part of me that wants to experience and feel something different, as it is for my gal as well.

Often times there is a different kind of moan from a woman during anal sex. Hearing a woman moan is another turn-on, and different moans are always good IMO.

For my gal, it allows her to experience multiple feelings in various parts of her body. She enjoys anal, and it also allows me to please her pussy with my fingers, or play with her breasts, or play with all 3 zones (ass, pussy, breasts) at the same time. And stimulating all those zones simultaneously for her is also a turn-on for me. Plus, as with cumming in her pussy, when I cum in her ass she can feel my cock pulsate, feel my cum in her ass and she enjoys that as well.

Anal sex is also a very intimate act. If done wrong, it can be painful and cause hurt feelings for her. Done correctly though, it adds trust and another type of closeness that you both can enjoy.

And then there are the times when she just wants to get naughty and nasty to the point she wants me to grab her hair, slam her hard, spank her ass and all the other things she enjoys while having anal sex. Plus she enjoys my cock in her ass and a toy in her pussy at the same time. She says it's such a "full" feeling. It gives her goosebumps from time to time.

So that's the gist of it for my gal and I. I feel fortunate to be with her in that she enjoys almost all the things I do. I also enjoy being penetrated by her for many of the same reasons as mentioned above along with other reasons. But this is focused on how/why my gal and I enjoy anal sex.

Long winded, but hopefully it explains a few things.

 

Don't you feel violated in a way having something in your butt tho?

 

Neither of us do. But then one could say we are open minded about such things and enjoy trying new and different. If we were not this way, then it's very possible the feeling of being violated could have occurred. We communicated a lot about anal sex (years ago) before ever trying it though. Communication goes a long way towards being comfortable and confident with each other and what you do.

 

I see, interesting

 

It's really tight, you can go balls deep even if you're over a foot-long, and if she's got a bubble butt, you can also feel your dick slide against her cheeks, which adds to the overall sensation.

 

Hot

 

'lmao, same

 

I'm attracted to some trans women and would like to date one if I ever had the opportunity and met the right person. But the thing is I don't want to be labeled as gay and I don't want everyone to know I'm in a relationship with a transgender woman. I don't like men at all and I'm not attracted to guys in any way and I've only ever been with females. But I have used to dildos before and I have been packed before and I love the feeling. So if I had a girl with a penis, I we're definitely and know what it's like to get fucked. But I Don't want to be gay and don't want anyone to find out. But it's very hard to find a transgender girlfriend and I'm not gay so I don't really know what to do from this point. I still like women and pussy but also get more turned on by shemale porn and fantasizing about women with a penis

 

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I have a saying I live by, if you’re doing something you don’t want anyone to know about, then don’t do it!

 

Interesting. I've only done it with females and only when they have asked or told me to.

One was a really close friend and she wanted to know what it felt like. Knowing I hadn't done it before, and knowing me so well, she asked me to do it with her.
The other liked it as a regular part of her sex play and she was quite the servant/submissive type.

I needed lube on both occasions and they were tight at the entrance but inside was very different from a vagina. Inside a vagina, I get the feeling of tightness/puffiness and envelopment. Obviously, it's lovely. With anal, the opening is tighter and once inside, it was like a flexible smooth slide. Less friction too.

I think there is usually a big slice of psychology in it - for the guy or the girl. Maybe both.

When the first one had experienced it and we met on another day, she literally just bent over as she dropped her knickers and told me to do her again. She felt very dominated and powerless to resist once I has begun and she enjoyed that feeling.

I was indifferent to it (the dominance), but I enjoyed the feelings.
The other one displayed even more signs of enjoying it and was more active in trying to make me push harder as she rocked back and forth, against my thrusts. And when I had recovered, she often wanted it again. Vaginal sex with her was seldom. Anal and oral though not in the same session, certainly not without a good wash/shower together in between acts.

 

You very obviously haven't experienced it yet. For me it is extremely addictive. The first time I did it it was so easy. I just washed out my butt with a hose attached to my faucet with warmest water I can stand. the warm water will allow your sphincter to relax and you will love that. When nice and clan and expanded I inserted one end of a double ended 18 inch dildo in about . We8 inches with coconut oil. I walked out of the bathroom and laid face down and she mounted the other end and began fucking me. I moaned forever. Then she held it and fucked the dildo her . We were both in heaven.

 

Not at all. Prior to allowing him to fuck me with his cock my wife had been working my butt hole during oral sex with her fingers, then small vibrating dildo's which then led to her pegging me with a rather thick 8" dong attached to her strap-on. He was experienced with fucking asses being his wife loves receiving anal, so he entered slowly just working the head of his cock in and out for a while. I did feel some pressure as he began to slide deeper and deeper inside me which wasn't painful at all. Then once he has half of his 9 1/2" cock inside me he began to pick up his rhythm and provide a good fucking of my ass as he eventually bottomed out to which had my eyes rolled back in my head as I began moaning loudly and saying "Yes, fuck me, fuck me, fuck my ass". Then after about 20 minutes I felt him dumping his warm load inside me as my wife began sucking my cock again to bring me to orgasm.

 

As a guy, my attraction to anal is that feeling of dominance over the woman, in that she is either willfully submitting herself to me completely, or as a fantasy, that I’m having my way with her and she has no choice but to take my cock in her ass.

 

Never tried, in fact, I never bring it up!

 

There is a sense of dominance around it, sure, but in my opinion it goes a bit beyond that.

There is a primal eroticism in any woman who willingly surrenders herself anally to her man and enjoys the fuck out of it.

By embracing anal sex, a woman shows her desire and willingness to have sex for the sole purpose of pleasure, with no intent or possible result of pregnancy - it is sex at its rawest. Pure lust, free from any and all subconcious worries.

She is also embracing, to some degree, a willingness to become a sex object. Not only to please her man, but to enjoy herself as well.

It's both assertiveness and submission. Selfishness and selflessness. Femaleness and womanhood.

Plus, it creates a feedback loop of hornyness that results in stronger orgasms and more sex down the line...
https://sexblogging.com/anal-sex-semen-in-a-womans-ass-creates-a-higher-sex-drive-and-dependency/

 

Not at all, just the opposite. Remember, my wife had been working my ass with vibrators and dildos for many months before getting a strap-on with an 8" dong attached so she could fuck me like a man. She and I were sucking his cock together when she suggested I take his cock up my ass. He and I were game for it as she guided him in slowly and before long his 9 1/2" cock was fully inserted inside me as I was loving every second of it. Then I felt his warm load release inside me as his pace of fucking me got really intense as he was thrusting in faster.

 

Me too, So? Its all about orgasmic pleasure. My love is only shared with my wife, but sexual pleasure can be achieved with anyone. When your partner is on the same page as you, it can be an extremely fun experience, without regrets of hangups about it.
We have both discovered many different pleasures with both sexes. Our sexual pleasures, both mental and physical, enhance our well being ,as well as the people we have been with. The excitement we share is certainly Life Enhancing.