Finding a third

Years ago a girlfriend and I went swing clubs. Some clubs have nights where lone men can attend. We also met men and women who wanted to get together away from the club. Google swing clubs and your city. There's even a swing club in my small town.

 

If anyone in NJ is looking for another guy to join, hmu.

 

I am interested. All you have to do is ask

 

Not cheap a sexy woman as yourself should have men lining up eager to help hell I would love too lol

 

So you seem pretty active on this sight still. It's my first day here and I'm guessing I can't msg or post a profile pic because of that so I followed you and Im hoping the aimless scanning for active people slows lol. So far not much luck. Seems like most haven't been here since 1970

 

I have been the third with a married couple. I was approached by the wife. We met through the city volleyball league.

 

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Finding a third isn't as difficult as some might think. Getting to know someone before mentioning anything about sex can give you insights into the persons values, interests and such.
My wife talked to her friends about guys and found thirds that way.
A few times a male friend of mine mentioned how hot my wife was, with three guys I mentioned that we could set up a threesome, one balked at the idea of me being there, the other two eventually passed my wife meeting them, with me for drinks.
Swing Parties work also, I have a few stories on that subject... for another thread.
Ask yourself honestly if you really can share, jealousy can pop up suddenly and unexpectedly, threesomes tend to be a good way to wreak a relationship too.

 

Double list. Has worked well for us.