Comfort level

Discussion in 'Nudism, Naturism' started by Jayandcay, Feb 24, 2021.

  1. Jayandcay

    Jayandcay Wink wink!

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    Hypothetically, if you were at an over 21, clothing optional, RV camp ground where the rules clearly state “no open sexual activity”. What do you consider an inappropriate level of touching or at what point would you notify the staff? Kissing, applying sunscreen, playful wrestling, massaging. Where do you draw the line? We respect everyone and really don’t care what others are doing in and around their RV, but there are others that are easily offended and go strait to the staff. Just looking to see what others think.
     
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  2. Nudegardner

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    I like "public sex" . It is liberating seeing sex outside in the open. All of it.

    Where we go it is accepted and normal. Swingers,gay ,bi and straight.

    I enjoy sex infront of others.
     
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  3. oldbarefootguy

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    I wouldn't notify the staff no matter what, but I wouldn't look away, either.
     
  4. ALAnonMan

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    Personally I wouldn't notify the staff unless someone were being harmed. I was raised not to be a snitch.
     
  5. CyclingNaturally

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    That's a tough one. Personally, my wife and I would never notify the staff, even if people were going at it right in the open in front of the entire campground.

    On the other hand, my wife and I probably wouldn't even hold hands in fear of getting into trouble (although we wouldn't mind being the couple getting it on in front of the entire campground if we knew it was okay).
     
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  6. Jayandcay

    Jayandcay Wink wink!

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    I should’ve given some backstory on this. Back in January we met up with a couple of our friends in Arizona, mostly to get away from the cold for a weekend. The couple that was in the RV next to us were in the late 60s early 70s, we are all in our mid-40s early 50s, so a little bit of an age gap. In their defense we had been drinking and playing music. We’re pretty sure it was the wife who first reported us for our music being too loud. We weren’t jerks about it or anything and politely turn the music down. It was probably obvious to them that we were in the lifestyle because it was three couples in one RV, there was some very heavy flirting going on, sexual jokes, and a lot touching and horseplay. About an hour after being told to turn our music down, we were asked to leave for violation of the park’s “no open sexual contact policy”. Like the old saying goes “ most nudists are not swingers, but most swingers are nudist“. You never know who your neighbor is going to be at an RV park.
     
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  7. nudony

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    TBH I would probably stroll over and ask myself to turn the volume down a bit. If then invited to join for a drink; my wife and I would very likely take you up on that offer, as we have in the past. If things took on a "sexual turn" we'd probably politely excuse ourselves, wish you a fun night and ask to be "discreet" about it; in case someone hears you and is not as open-minded as we are. And so we can sleep lol!
    My wife and I are not swingers but we are fairly social and open-minded people. A bit of "after hours friskiness" doesn't turn us off. But many other nudists are more "old school" and take the "non-sexual nudism" philosophy very seriously. Just like you "never know if your neighbor is a swinger", you "never know if your neighbor is old school."
     
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  8. Panama Jack

    Panama Jack Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Jayandcay,
    Great question. Here’s my take. First my wife and I are nude a lot in our daily life together. We are open minded regarding nudity and sex.
    We have camped where the rules are so tight that we felt we were being watched by the rules police. Not a fun experience. I was once told to remove my glans ring because it was against the rules. We felt like we could not touch each other or show any affection.
    We really love to go to LS campground resorts where there are rules but it is more of a relaxed adult playground. I will say most sex is behind closed doors, but there is always some form of touching and sexual tones. We are nudist, but understand adults love to play too. To each their on, but we are respectful to “Vanilla”nudist. We go to LS resorts to take a break from ridged everyday life rules and loosen up.
     
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  9. Craig Steven

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    None of it bothers me at all. I have had sex in public. I have watched people have sex in public. Heck, I have masturbated in public. The trick is...there is a time and a place. If it is not offensive to anyone, then it's fine. Don't do it if someone is uncomfortable with the actions.
     
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  10. Nakednudist

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    I believe sex is beautiful and shouldn't be hidden behind close doors.
     
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  11. Panama Jack

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    I believe as you do. Sex is erotic and spontaneous at times. But you have to use common sense when it happens. I fuck my wife in a hot tub full of nude people last summer and on a day bed one evening. People didn’t pay any a attention to what we were doing. We saw others fucking and just moved on. No big deal. But not around children. Nope, no way, nada.
     
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  12. thesantos29

    thesantos29 Pretty Hip

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    That sucks. "Sexual activity" is like "porn." It's subjective.

    To ME, sexual activity would be anything involving genitals. Petting, wrestling and horseplay don't count.

    A question to ask is "If we were doing the same thing but with clothes on, would we be evicted?"
     

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