Um I need some advice on what to do here...

Um last night me and a girl tryed to go at it, with one problem. It wouldnt fit in. The main concern is that she isn't even a virgin and I dont know what to do to loosen her up. So far all that I can stick in is the head, nothing more

 

Try some damn lubrication.


You ask me though. I'd be proud of this problem.

 

Yeah .... Tell her to fist herself once a night to losen it up then friday... You know the rest...

 

were you hard enough? i know no one gets into me unless they're completely rigid.

 

^ mabey thats what did it

 

yeah shes probably right. it has to be completely hard. and lubricated

 

foreplay foreplay foreplay
and lubrication

(jeez, this must be the tenth time I've posted that somewheres)

Foreplay is required for the majority of girls. Lubrication is often required, and in general a fabulous idea. How wet a girl is isn't always an indication of how horny or turned on she is - I can be outrageously dry, yet the horniest and most turned on I've ever been. I'm just wired that way.

Were you guys using a condom? Please tell me you were using a condom. Make sure your lube of choice won't destroy condoms. I don't like KY at all personally (and haven't tried other lubes) because it's so thick and sticky and nasty, but maybe she already has something she likes, or you two can shop together for some.

 

You have such a huge penis, way huger than mine or anyone else's here, and we are all in awe of the fact that you are so huge that you can't even get your penis into a girl.

There -- that's what you wanted to hear, right?






This reminds me of a guy who called up Dr. Judy, the radio sex therapist, saying that he and his girlfriend had gotten stuck together because her vagina had clamped down on her. Dr. Judy called the guy out right there and said, gently, that he was full of shit -- because as a sex therapist and doctor, she knew it was not possible. She realized that it was really just him wanting to get onto the radio and speak his fantasy.

Simply put, I don't believe you. Especially because you say you can get the head in but not the rest. The head, usually, is at least as wide as the shaft, so unless you have some fugly weird penis, you should have an easy time getting the shaft in if you've gotten the head in.

-Jeffrey

 

use some lube and make sure you have enough forplay

 

You know it's not supposed to go in her nose right?

 

well, the vaginal entrance can actually clamp down, but it's usually when something is trying to be inserted. Called vaginismus. More of a psychological condition than anything, as I understand it. Basically, really awful past sexual experiences make your body not want to have intercourse again, even if you think you're willing.

but it doesn't sound like that's the case with this guy


anyways, lube and foreplay are always good advice, no matter the situation.

 

All you need is a little Astroglide....works wonders!

 

I don't know. I've been having sex with my boyfriend for over 2 years now, he's not that big, and I don't have vaginsmus. but sometimes we can't have sex because I don't loosen up enough. foreplay is quite neccessary. Didn't you say it was your first time together? Could be the stress of that. Give it more time and more effort and you shouldn't have a problem.

 

shit thats what im doing wrong

 

^^^
hahahahahahaha

she lost her nose in Iraq

 

Here here to that! Some women often need much more stimulation than those impatient men are willing to give. I know I need prolonged stimulation to even reach the peak.

 

mmhm. there's also the fact that sometimes you gotta work the lube around. even if the outer area is fully lubed, the inside might not yet be, sometimes it works like that.

 

Like Twista said, "Get It Wet."Try foreplay. Friction always creates problems. You might even try oral first. Diffrent strokes for diffrent folks ya know.