a sexual desire of mine

Discussion in 'True Confessions' started by Axion, Feb 19, 2005.

  1. Axion

    Axion Member

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    well i am by no means gay or bi or anything, but i really want to have sex with a guy, the thought of having a hard penis in my ass, going back and forth and cumming gets me so hard that i can hardly stand it and i wish i had someone to do it for me, but i dont know who to ask or how to ask them
     
  2. Peace Attack

    Peace Attack Make War

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    Don't take this too hard but I'm pretty sure your bi. Go to a gay bar.
     
  3. MysticSnowcone

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    I really wish someone would explain to me this mass mentality of, "Oh, im not gay but i sure could use a guy lover right now..."

    Why is it that every guy who is about to say he'd love to kiss a guy or take up the pooper starts off with, "Now I've never subscribed to the homosexual agenda or anything..."
     
  4. StonerBill

    StonerBill Learn

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    yer its called 'bicuriosity'
     
  5. amethystrse

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    You sound bi to me hon. IMO there are different types of bi. There's the kind where you lust for both genders but can only see yourself in a serious relationship with one gender (ie. you would like to have sex with both men and women but only want to be in relationships with women or something). And then there's what I like to call 50/50 bi where you lust for and can see yourself in a relationship with both genders. You feel the same for both.

    Or, you could just have a fettish. It could have nothing to do with men and everything to do with having something in your ass. I used to know a guy who liked to have dildos used on him but wouldn't even think of being with a guy. He just liked the sensation but didn't go for men. *shrugs*

    I say, if you're curious then try it. You'll never know how you truly feel until you do and try not to let social views to get in the way. :p As for how, well that really depends. IMO it should be someone you feel comfortable with. You could try to meet someone at a gay bar or club or have a good friend introduce you to someone if possible. I don't know how it is for men when meeting other men (I'm a chick) but if it's probably not much different then when a man meets a woman. I mean, for me meeting another woman is kind of like when I meet another man (though I've found women to be a little less shy haha).

    Oh, and always be careful. There are jerks in every community.
     
  6. mrpiddleslives

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    I'm pretty sure you straight. Just because you think about gettin fucked by a guy does not mean you want to be in a relationship with one. Which I would define being bisexual as, being attracted to girls/boys emotionally and physically.
    It seems that Axion just has a fantasy. People have fantasies about being raped/tortured/fucked by animals. Doesn't mean that they actually want to be brutally raped does it?
    Go for it mate, you never know you might actually like it :)
     
  7. CookieMonster

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    I don't believe there's any such thing as being bi .. being bi is just like being in limbo before going gay. All my gay friends were bi before they said they were gay.. and I have many gay friends. A lot of gay strangers agree with me too... I'm sure there are people who have been bi for a long time and that may not change, but for the most part it seems true from my experience. :) Just thought I'd share.

    OH! .. a sexual desire is JUST THAT.. a DESIRE.. NOT a change in sexuality. It doesn't change your sexuality. It just means you're looking to explore. IMO I don't believe that should be labeled as "bicuriosity" ..
     
  8. CookieMonster

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    Also.. there are straight men that take it in the pooper by their significant other.. and they're not bi or gay.. they're adventurous and really brave. Kudos to those fellas !
     
  9. Axion

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    i know i would like it, i am seriously dying for it to happen...i dont know how much longer i can wait
     
  10. gertie

    gertie Senior Member

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    me too

     
  11. Miss_Tambourine_Girl

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    why don't u just put you ass on the way??
    sooner or later someone is gonna pass and give you a couple of hits!
     
  12. bedlam

    bedlam Senior Member

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    go for it,, enjoy, hope you find someone to stick it up your ass
     
  13. Super_Grrl

    Super_Grrl Crazy love

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    LOL

    Sorry that just reminded me of that episode of Sex and the City, where Carrie was dating that guy who was bi, and Miranda told her that bisexuality is just a stopover to Ricky Martinville...lol had to laugh.

    Threadstarter, I got no advice for you except maybe start experimenting at home....could be fun, without the hassle of stranger-penis.
     
  14. ciaobello24

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    Knock yourself out! Sex is our friend!
    jesu
     

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