Did I miss out?

I missed an opportunity last night. I'm not sure if I made the right decision or not.

here's the situation: There is a guy, we'll call him Mike and another guy, we'll call him Jack. Mike is from money and is kinda snooty but he's funny and quiet. I see him all the time because he is in most of my classes. Jack used to be in my classes but he changed majors. He is more wild and loud. I haven't seem him in a while

Last night, we were all at a friends house. By the time I got there, the guys had been drinking for hours. I decide to take this opportunity to pick Mike's brain about what he thinks of me. I mean I've flirting with his ass for weeks with no response so I'm feeling like its do or die. Either he wants to holla or not. From the instant I hit the door, Jack is all over me. Hugging me, calling me sexy, rubbing me. I'm trying to be polite because I know that he has been drinking and truthfully, this behavior is just an exagerated version of how he usually acts towards me. He has been trying to talk to me since I started school in 2003.
Long story short, Mike basically tells me that he is not interested (separate story) but before I get a chance to talk to him I start noticing that Jack is damn fine, finer than Mike and more my type. Plus he has this nice body. Its Mike's personality I was attracted to, not his body. But he keeps putting me on the spot in front everybody and he has yet to approach me right. Yelling that you will suck my titties all night, or " I'll do anything! Even suck them toes". So due to his approach, I've never considered him seriously. After he passes out last night, his friends (who are also my friends) start telling me that Jack has always really liked me (I figured as much) and I start wondering "what am I doing" Here this attractive guy has been trying to get my attention for over a year and I'm chasing the dude that wants to play games.

But really though, Mike and Jack are friends. I feel kinda wrong friend hopping like that. I was confused last night and drinking myself so I made no moves just to be sure not to do some shit I might regret. Now, perfectly sober, I wanna talk to Jack and see if he is that wild all the time.

Did I miss an opportunity? I'm not sure

 

Sounds like you are ready to jump on the next wiener that shows interest.

You ought not compromise less you are looking for nothing.

 

duh!!! my love comes home in September. I'm lonely and horny

Haven't you read my other posts? And I haven't seen Jack since last October, he was added to the situation for the first time last night. Its obvious you didn't bother to really read and understand the post

 

you asshole

 

last time I offer my two.

 

it sounds like "jack" might actually like you... so using him for a piece of ass might not be exactly the nicest thing to do... i could be wrong, but anyway..... i think the oppurtunity for something is still there.. you just gotta talk to him about it.

 

if I made half of an attempt I could get Jack's number and call him....

The issue would be losing the power by calling him first and Mike finding out

*scratches head*

 

September is not that far off.

Think that you might wish to consider what happens if you, do come September.

Hormones suck.

 

I have the number

Should I call? please your opinions within the next 30 minutes

 

i vote no; he sounds arrogant & sleazy, even if he was completely loaded.

 

Not if you do not want complications come September. Seriously you say the love of your life returns then and perhaps it depends on how he would also feel if you make that call and he would know.

Your call....

Hormones suck......lol

 

i saw no as well, may be sex, but is it really worth it?

 

oh, i didn't know you had a boyfriend or something.

 

I don't

 

oh.... sorry, i misunderstood heat's post above.

 

?????? Sorry if I did not read this right.

My apology.

Heat

 

I mean I know that you have no way of knowing this but.....he and I are supposed to 'see what happens' when he gets home. We are not really planning to be together, just give it a chance, you know

Besides, he has a whole other family and SHE thinks he is coming home to her

 

I am really sorry to hear that about his other family and more sorry to hear that you are left waiting to see what happens......hardly appears to be a fair situation to you.

I did not know and my apology as then it would change my response to being you need to do what you think you should as obviously the commitement is not totally there and perhaps you need to look at moving on.

I am sorry as I did not know.

I have a song for you....hope that it is ok if not PM me and I will remove it.



Sometimes Love Just Ain't Enough
Patty Smyth and Don Henley

I don't wanna lose you,
I don't wanna use you
just to have somebody by my side
And I don't wanna hate you
I don't wanna take you
But I don't wanna be the one to cry
That don't really matter to anyone, anymore
But like a fool I keep losing my place
And I keep seeing you walk through that door

But there's a danger in loving somebody too much
And it's sad when you know it's your heart you can't trust
There's a reason why people don't stay where they are
Baby sometimes love just ain't enough

Now I could never change you
I don't wanna blame you
Baby you don't have to take the fall
Yes I may have hurt you
But I did not desert you
Maybe I just wanna have it all
It makes a sound like thunder
It makes me feel like rain
And like a fool who will never see the truth
I keep thinking something's gonna change

But there's a danger in loving somebody too much
And it's sad when you know it's your heart you can't trust
There's a reason why people don't stay where they are
Baby sometimes love just ain't enough


And there's no way home
when it's late at night and you're all alone
Are there things that you wanted to say
Do you feel me beside you in your bed
there beside you where I used to lay
And there's a Danger in Loving somebody too much
And it's sad when you know it's your heart they can't touch.
There's a reason why people don't stay who they are
Baby sometimes love just ain't enough
Baby sometimes love just ain't enough



Sometimes we just know love is not enough and it is time to move on.

Wishing you love that touches you and arms that hold you when you need to cry and a man who will be there for you.

Again my apology as I did not know or I would not of posted that.
Heat

 

uh i dont know what you should do. sounds like youre attracted to Mike cus he has money and wont hit on you. youre attracted to Jack cus he's hot and will hit it as soon as you tell him too. but you have your love coming in september? am i getting that correctly? i cant condemn or condone any action you take here. i would say find a man and stick with him, but that wasnt one of the options now was it?

 

so I should stick with one guy even if he is not digging me? I think not

anyhoo, I called him. he was at the club. he's gonna call me later