i have a quick question, do you have to wanna have sex with the same sex to be gay, i find some guys attractive but the thought of kissing or fucking them makes me wanna puke. im worried about it cause i found out my fathers gay just last year (he was never married to my mom, just knocked her up) and that made me a little paranoid about myself, how does a person know if there gay.
I wouldn't call you gay if the thought of sexual activity with a guy "makes you want to puke". You just appreciate beauty in a variety of people. That being said, the label really doesn't matter that much.
don't sweat it Juggla .. you aren't gay and just because your father was, sure DOES NOT mean you are or will be. You said "i find some guys attractive but the thought of kissing or fucking them makes me wanna puke." The thought of sex with another guy makes you ill, then I don't see your being gay. You can find them handsome, but that doesn't mean anything. peace, bob
