who comes first?

Always the woman. They are much more complicated and require much more careful handling to experience pleasure and have an orgasm. So I always try to finish first, then concentrate fully on her needs and sexual ecstasy.

 

I'm definitely in the minority because I'm all about his orgasm. I prefer not to cum until later, if at all, because it's a total distraction for me when it comes to giving him pleasure. Also if I do climax then afterwards I can find it difficult to continue with sex so I prefer to just focus on him. A lot of men don't understand this though.

 

both of us

 

From previous conversations and some experiences I found it common for a woman to give her guy an orgasm first before getting her own pleasures. Especially with a new person.

I would like to give lots first but when I do it backfires, it goes soft and can’t use it the way I want for her, I end up only able to orgasm with a titfuck for a strange reason. So yeah allowing myself to be selfish at first works best so I can give a partner attention while I reload, and I last longer too.

 

My woman always cums first. I love to give her 2 or 3 oral orgasms before entering her and thrusting us both to one massive final cum!!

 

Always the girl first, mostly from eating her pussy and fingers inside her, for her to cum at least once that way, and playing with her tits and nipples.

 

Well, it's kind of a routine for us now. She sucks me until I cum in her mouth. The minute she swallows we're working together to get her on her back. Sometimes she'll pull a toy out but usually she just uses the same pillow that I had under my head when I watched her suck my cock to put under her head so that she can watch me lick her pussy. Once she's comfy and her legs are opened up, I go down on her. Takes about 8 or 10 minutes before she moans hard and holds my head down while she climaxes. Usually my fingers get in there a little too before her orgasm. Then, it's the shower. She puts a long dildo in her backside and bends over to suck me hard again while she fingers her clitoris. We both cum in there again. Hard to say who goes first. Sometimes she's so turned on by what went into her bum that she can barely hold her orgasm back. I can usually tell because she'll nearly run into the shower after cumming on the bed. But if she takes a little while in the shower, I end up cumming first in there. She sucks different in the shower. Maybe because she's bent over but I really think it's because she admits that she loves being filled up in both ends. Anyway, she gets to swallow again and I get to feel her nipples get rock hard seconds before her climax. She moans more in the shower too although whether it's on her bed or in her shower, her moans are coming from a filled up mouth.

 

Now that is an excellent routine to get stuck into.....

 

My wife ALWAYS cums multiple times first. It has become an ego thing for me. I literally will not cum until she has at least once. Claims I'm the only guy that she has ever cum every single time with.

Now if she's giving me head just because - I let loose on those occasions.

 

I try to let her all ways come first.

 

You are very considerate. It is very satisfying to the man to see his wife to climax before him. I also allow my wife to come first. Then soon after she will signal me to come. Unlike yours, my wife will come only once at a time.

 

Very nice of you to be considerate to her. Happy sex life.

 

The last two women I've been intimate with, including my wife, always orgasm multiple times. Not only does it look sexy as hell, but it blows up the ego. I love watching my wife beg me to suck my dick because she can't take anymore. Then she'll suck on my dick for as long as she wants, which I thoroughly enjoy.

 

I am well taken care of in the bedroom.. so I do get my fair share of orgasms, especially if we have the time to make it last (my husband can get me pretty heated during foreplay and that carries over into sex).. but if we're just kinda doing a quickie or have to rush a bit then he always cums first.. depends on the scenario..

 

Very good way to finish.

 

I always make her cum first by stroking her then fill her up. I'd like to mix it up sometimes by hopping on in and pumping before she's cummed. The energy is totally different and there's a kind of tension. The ultimate goal is for us to come together. Hand jobs are best for that I love that moment when we know we're both close and change gear and go for broke.

 

Cumming together is the best. You should time in such a way while you are inside her she should be cumming. The almost immediately following her orgasm, you should start to cum. This way both will enjoy each others orgasm.

 

Yes it's absolutely the best thing in the world. If she cums while I'm in her it makes me cum every time. The contractions, the sound she makes, the look in her eyes, it's irresistible.

 

ooft yumm I need to marry someone like you