Well, My wife wanted me to masturbate for her last night. I did and she loved the show. I do it any time she ask. It’s all good in our house.
A follow up:I was in the house yesterday, and my wife said she wanted to masturbate herself. It must be noted we think nothing of masturbation in our house. It natural, relaxing and healthy. She laid back on the bed and used her finger vibrator on her clit. I moved around the house and did not bother or stare at her. However, I was aware of her reaching her point of no return orgasm. I did stop and watched her explode. I had a compersion moment for her, and it gave me great joy. (Google compersion) She was in her blissful moment, There is nothing more beautiful than watching your loved one do this. She appreciates the fact she doesn’t have to hide and she can do it any time she wants.
We haven’t had a chance yet-work/life/kids all get in the way sometimes of being able to really spend a lot of time having sex; but I do definitely want to try it soon, just get over the fear and lack of self confidence and just take the plunge
Thats the spirit Ghostgirl (Pun very much intended) - nothing bad can come of it..., If you trust each other, then its just a matter of getting comfortable and enjoying the experience. If we are sharing.., here is our story from a couple weeks ago. My wife and I were sitting naked in the warm sun on the back deck, in separate big comfortable chairs but facing each other within reach, we took in the feel of the warm sun on our skin and toyed with each other and slowly the touching started to get more arousing and sexual. We could feel the heat between us rising and I sat back and started to slowly stroke myself while I watched her softly caress her breasts, tickle her skin and slip a hand between her legs. I could see her nipples harden and her skin fill with goose bumps, her legs part and her wetness appear. We just quietly watched as the other raised and lowered the intensity off and on for sometime. It was very calming and relaxing and there was no pressure on either side to hurry it or complete it, just to enjoy the sensation of self pleasure. We eventually both climaxed while watching the other one do the same and it was an amazing feeling of release and we just closed our eyes for a while and enjoyed the warmth of it all. It was a beautiful thing. My point is there doesn't have to be any big prep or production, sometimes its just the right space and the two of you share a connection for a moment, then just let that feeling take over and lead you down the road. On different occasions it can be intense and exhilarating or it can be calm and relaxing or anywhere in between or all of the above. It is very natural, so don't over think it. Enjoy. We would love to hear how it all unfolds when it happens.
She loves to. We lay side by side and do ourselves. Sometimes she takes me out with her mouth but she rarely lets me finish her off...she wants me to watch until she finally pops.