You're not invisible. Not sure what your question is but be yourself. Wear what you wear daily. Don't put on a false front. But if you feel you want to change your image in daily life, then do so. Start working out, diet and get fit and wear some stylish clothes. But if this new you is not really you, you will never be able to keep it up for long. If you feel you are a schlub and want to stay that way then find a girl with the same identity. There is someone for everyone.
I would probably say get a nice army style crew cut. Im no expert. But one thing I know ladies love that look. But up to you
I like a muscular guy with some nice arms as much as the next person, but its not exactly the muscles that turn me on. I like it more when the guy is strong, like he can throw me around/pick me up whenever type strong. Maybe because I'm such a sub but just a thought, even if they're a bit chubby I like it because they can overpower me in bed.
No brainer for me I had a beer belly with a 42 inch waist Now I have Abs (6 pack) and 32 inch waist. Big difference as you do get noticed
Hmm...a lot of things but his face stands out most to me. Also their vibe in general, how flirty are they, do they talk right, etc.
It depends on the woman, I don't see why not. My partner is roughly one inch shorter than me at 5'6 and has an athletic build, albeit I am in good shape too but I do not outmuscle her much, so if this is possible for me I don't see why a more muscular guy would fare worse as long as he gets the basics right. I met her on cupid and have found out via her phone that she had the longest chat with me as well as another guy that was in good shape judging by his photos but was considerably bigger. However I made a daring move of getting into her country before a border closure and we met up shortly after that and have been inseparable since.
Of course, but there is such a thing as too much muscle. Most people don't have to worry about that though.
While I'm not as thin as I used to be (56) I'm still on the muscular side. Yes, it does make a difference...... I adore muscular women....fit with great definition to a bodybuilder type body.