As someone else said if he makes me orgasm first then I'll probably let him finish where ever he wants. I love taking it in my mouth and swallowing. It feels so sensual and intimate and shows him how much I love to pleasure him. I love to see the look on his face as he cums and watches me swallow him
Cumming in my wife's mouth is a turn on for her. She says any cum of mine that drops outside of her body is a waste. She always wants it in an orifice whether it's her ass, pussy or mouth.
I am a pleaser when I give, I would love to do a lot of giving before having my turn. Then I have difficulty getting hard or staying hard. I need to get my fun looked after first and she gets lots from me knowing she satisfied me.
Yep, same sort of deal with my wife and me. She had one bf, a real jerk, before she met me. Over last 34 yrs finally got some of the specifics out. Oral for her, back then was not consensual. Has taken 30+ yrs to get her to let me come when she sucks, and as yours is, she's really good at it, mouth like velvet. Last year once I "kinda-came" for no reason and she accidentally swallowed it. Had to admit it wasn't really bad. But still, not much progress since then. So it's a lesson for any younger guys maybe reading this to not SCREW-UP the younger females by being a jerk! It lasts for years. Ok, off my soapbox.
I really enjoy giving head and I do love it when a guy cums in my mouth, however I don't like the taste of cum and it can make me gag. So a long time ago I gave up on trying to swallow and now I just let it sort of drool out while I keep sucking lol. I actually think it makes for a better experience for him. Since I'm not focused on trying not to gag or to swallow etc. I can keep up the rhythm until he's totally finished.
One of many who likes giving oral minus cum in mouth. I thought this woman the trick to take the head out of her mouth and place her lips on the underside of the head, and work the head during ejaculation. The oral doesn’t stop during the best moment, you don’t have anything in your mouth unless a very small amount, you get to see the ejaculation. I had that done many times before. It still feels great, actually more tolerable than having lips still wrapped around the head in my case, and I like seeing my ejaculation. You can also return to putting the penis back in your mouth after if you’re one who likes to continue doing it longer.
I didn't use to find it a turn on, but the more I swallow the hotter it gets for me luckily. So now, yes, when men cum in my mouth I do find it gets me even more wet. Unless I'm not in the mood and I'm doing it just for them, but that's rare.
Keeping up the rhythm either when giving an oral (I have no experience in receiving) or during receiving a handjob is important especially when you consider the pleasure other person is very important. I hope all of us keep this in mind which will make sex so pleasurable.
Clairee, I know I've posted this on another thread, but it seemed relevant here, after reading previous posts, for this one. The 3 major problems between males and females with oral sex on the male. 1) "want him to finish in my mouth". It's been said thousands of times, 'an uninspired, task-oriented, hesitant, just-get-it-over-with, stop-as-soon-as-he-squirts-and-spit-it-out' type of BJ is frankly almost not worth trying for. In fact, many males get resentful, angry and quit asking, which then leads to more discord in the relationship. Guess where that goes. 2) "prefer not to swallow". Not as big a deal as number one, but so much more intimate and closeness-bringing to the relationship. Maybe not necessary every time, but when it happens it's so memorable many men.(me included) will remember those few minutes for 20, 30, 40 years later. (see my post above) 3) "keep going until he's finished". Important and related to number one, the male's orgasm is not over after the four or five squirts of semen come out. Not! It goes on internally, physically and mentally for quite a while. Example: Let's say you're female, and as with most, the only or best way you can come is clitoral stimulation. Your male partner is really good at tongue-work for you down there. He hears your deep breathing and increasing movements and you make the sounds you make when you're coming. A second or two later he stops, gets up and goes to wash his face. Not too rewarding is it? It's the same with males. A woman who holds onto you down there like a hungry calf, and won't let go 'til you stop shaking or tell her to, is a wonderful WOMAN. (you can stop for a second to push the semen out, but then go right back to nursing on him with your mouth. Hope this helps some folks out there.