Does your s/o like to watch you masturbate?

I can tell you, my wife loves to watch me masturbate. She has always been intrigued by the male anatomy.
It not a weekly thing, but if the mood strikes she is game.

 

That’s fantastic! So you get to masturbate and share it with her electronically, then when you get together, she is so horned up that she needs a fuck? Sounds ideal...!!

Getting that first ‘urgent’ surge of cum out manually would allow me to ride my wife harder and longer, and give her the vigorous doggy finish she so craves!

 

I am really intrigued by those whose wives/gfs enjoy watching them masturbate. Does your partner get enjoyment from watching your cock stiffen? Is it the pleasure of watching you self-pleasure your stiff shaft? Is it the appearance of a glistening, precummy cockhead that appeals? Or is it the moment when your cumslit flares open and that first pulse of semen that she enjoys watching...?

 

I’m too self conscious to let my husband watch me masturbate but I LOVE to watch him do it and squirt all over himself or me! Luckily, he loves being watched and I’m working up my confidence to do it in front of him because he really wants to watch me.

 

I'm a husband that's in the same position as yours. Just thought I would put my 2 penny's worth in.
I'm wanting my wife to do the same but she has no confidence either. You may be surprised why reaction you get if you done it for him. A woman who masturbates is a beautiful thing, please don't be ashamed or embarrassed. Grasp the opportunity and enjoy the moment

 

I have to ask what's the downside? If you masturbate that means you like pleasing yourself and if you like to watch him that means you like to please him too. Letting him watch you pleasure yourself seems like a win/win to me! Go for it!

 

Seriously. He'll love it. Absolutely love it.

 

Thanks-I am working up to letting him watch me to completion. It’s the one thing I have still have a hang up about doing-we do lots of kinky things, use all kinds of toys, and are pretty adventurous..but there is something so intimate about having someone watch you do that, it’s a hard hang up to get over

 

He tells me that all of the time and I imagine he will love it as much as I love watching him do it.

 

There is no downside-it’s not that I don’t want to do it, it’s just hard for me get over the self consciousness of it-I don’t like being the center of attention in any setting, so this is basically the ultimate form of breaking down that hang up..I’m slowly building up to it, thank god he is a very patient man

 

I assume you do that together sometimes? Are you able to perform in that circumstance?

 

We have done it mutual masturbation a couple times, but not to completion for me-it’s a little easier because he isn’t focused on solely watching me, but it still makes me feel self conscious. I’m really trying to just work on not being so self conscious in general, because that will translate to the bedroom. We do lots of kinky stuff, and I’m always suggesting new and fun things to try to help me break out of this shell I’ve created.

 

I agree with the previous responses in that there is a huge turn on watching your partner please herself, and mutual masturbation is a great start if you are a little apprehensive. A woman that's confident in her sexuality is a huge turn on, as is a woman that is a little shy but willing to explore with you - so its really a win / win. So enjoy the ride wherever it leads you, your partner will love the adventure.

 

Ummmm.... did my wife become a Hip member? Because this is EXACTLY what she has said about masturbating for me....to a T!!!

 

Lol-I’m glad that I am not alone in this. I think, on a whole, guys are much more comfortable with masturbation and would do it for anyone willing to watch (at least my husband would and has) I envy that self confidence! I would love to be that free and walk into a sex club and do it for all to see-not sure I’ll ever get to that point, but it’s a goal to work towards

 

Not that I’m condoning it, but have you ever tried marijuana I heard it helps some loose inhibition?

 

We tried it once, for that very reason, but it was edible kind that apparently was more for helping sleep issues (apparently we aren’t well reversed in weed ) my husband ate too much and was puking all night, I didn’t take very much cuz I didn’t want to get sick..so needless to say it wasn’t successful and we haven’t tried since

 

My wife finds that a glass of wine before her shower and one after gets her good and relaxed. Or a big Moscow Mule does nicely as well to lower those inhibitions. But then, she has only put on a masturbation show for me like 3 times. Usually when she breaks out the wine or booze, she's feeling real frisky and wants me to get nasty with her.

 

Well arent u just mr stud muffin. She'd rather rub her own clit then have u finger her. Shut up

 

Every woman is different-my husband is great at oral but it still takes me upwards of 30 minutes to orgasm from it. I would love for it to work in 10 minutes and really love if it only took 2 minutes but I can’t orgasm in 2 minutes no matter how it is done.