You are correct except it was borrowed from urinary tract blockage and kidney stone removal procedures. These toys are for both sexes. There are women who explore insertion of these rods into their urethra duct. Here's another example of a sounding rod toy.
Amazing, never would have thought....... I was aware of the medical procedure but not for pleasure......
Oh, c'mon! $15 USD with a little lube and you could slide that little sword right up inside where the sun don't shine. Now, wouldn't that be fun?
My masturbations are mostly with my right hand, sometimes changing the grip and strokes. Mostly using an oil like MCT ( always liquid coconut oil and less oily) and sometimes caster oil ( much thicker oil). I have used a flashlight or a penis pump for a change in sensations. I have massaged my balls and used an elastic band to tie my balls. I look at ways to prolong orgasm and make the experience more pleasurable. I have done it in the past without touching myself but with the support of POV porn, headphones and working with contractions like kegel exercises ( it's a super long way of doing it, about 45 min to climax). Under a shower is a good one with the jet hitting the ventral side of my glans. The product is generally discarded, rubbed on my cock, ejected, etc. Usually wipe out with a paper towel or if unplanned anything washable( t-shirt, socks...). I masturbate if my woman is not available, if she has to work and she needs her energies. As for how often... even twice a day, haha. For me self masturbation is less satisfying than partner sex and partner masturbation. Women's bodies are just like heaven, nothing better. And if you cum a lot just take a zinc supplement, it would help to replenish your sperm( your welcome)
All a complete waste of resources when there are so many women wanting some of the creamy stuff. Besides, I suspect it can be a mess to clean up. Better to blast it inside someone. I'm surprised you would let your husband get away with that. I mean, if her were my husband I sure hope he would want me to help him with that!
As you guys do, It is the best way to talk and inform each other about what do you like and what do you do, so everyone is satisfied and agreed to enjoy without any problems.
Years ago I was out of town and was on the hotel bed starting to masturbate. I thought why not share this with my wife? I called home and she asked what I was doing. I told her. She asked what I was thinking about. I told her I was fantasizing about her with another guy. She seemed intregued and eventually after telling her some sundry details I came big time. However, she did indulge in self gratification. When I got home she said she didn't want to do that again. But I think that call solidified my fantasy in her brain, because a few months later we had the first of several MFMs with our friend.
Tried Vaseline, ky and many other lubes. I don't use anything except for coconut oil now. Works amazing for anal play also.
Myself, it's either the shower, toilet, or a lot of the time I just hop on my bed and roll up with my back and ass up against the wall and my cock pointing down into my mouth. Rarely any cleanup that way. And mine is hard to even taste as long as I keep up the occasional pineapple. If I'm with the wife, 95% of the time it's filling her pussy or ass. Rarely do I ever have an "external" orgasm with her.
My wife's favorite is inside of her.....mouth ass pussy. She'd say pulling out is a bad waste of good cum. Way back in my limber days I could get about half of my cock in my mouth and rub the other half. Loved feeling it swell in my mouth and swallowing. No way I could do that today.......I'd end up in traction.
It usually just shoots our onto my belly and I let it dry and later wash it off. I've got a big thing when with a partner to do it on her body (belly or breasts) but yet have to convince once to allow me to give her a facial with my semen.