Do you give your wife/girlfriend an erotic massage before sex?

I think the best is to try it. Try to do erotic massage before sex. If it works, that´s awesome. If it doesn´t you can learn it. Why not. I did this way because I was unexperienced, so I visit an erotic massage salloon where I learned that. This time I want to lear this foot massage job, so looking forward how it helps our sexual relationship.

 

My wife and I would usually trade massage as our main foreplay. We both loved taking that time and our pleasure was greatly increased.

I would usually give her a mostly full body massage with light massaging on the breasts as I was working her front and on her vulva when I was massaging her thighs. Eventually I would focus on her breasts, massing them well, rolling her oiled nipples between my fingers. Then I'd massage the outside lips of her well lubed pussy slowly unveiling her clit and giving it special treatment before sliding my fingers inside her and gently stimulating her vagina.

Usually about this time, a stream of precum would be dripping from my quite hard dick and my wife would be begging me to fuck her.

The feeling as her vagina engulfed my dick was amazing. She would be so turned on and ready for sex that her pussy would be incredibly warm and wet feeling welcoming in my cock. Sometimes we would each cum quickly together and lie together kissing and hugging until we'd continue fucking after a few minutes. I would have another powerful orgasm as she would have several more.

I highly recommend massage as foreplay. Don't go straight for the erotic massage, but gently relax your partner into it, then give it to them lovingly.

 

^^^^^ This. I give my wife an all-over body massage in what I call her "spa treatment." Put on soft music, then about 45 minutes of gentle, relaxing full-body massage with scented cream, front and back, with special treatment on her breasts, inner thighs, butt crack, outer labia. Spend some time massaging with my finger inside her anus, maybe put a vibrating plug in her behind, than finish by licking her whole 'lady zone" for an hour or more. It's like a mini-vacation focused ALL on her. She usually has more than 5 orgasms during this treatment. Generally 2 hours total or more for the whole "treatment." She's addicted to her "spa" time!!

 

My husband gives me a massage at least once a week that leads to sex..I reciprocate whenever he asks, but he prefers to give me one. I’m a lucky girl

 

We love massaging each other. During the covid lockdown we had ample opportunity to perform full body massage on each other. We are fully naked when we massage each other always use scented massage oils.. We both massage each other in turn and it also includes a brief massage of genital areas. The massage is used as a foreplay for the impending sex that night. So each of us are on high turn on through the day until you go to bed that night to have a mind blowing sex which usually ends in both of us climaxing almost at the same time. It is really wonderful to massage each other other than for sex.

 

I did sometimes with my ex, and my fwb

Or just a general full body massage to the Asian woman I used to see at her spa and it often followed with her sexual pleasure. Always hands on, no sex.

 

That’s awesome-I imagine the covid lockdown has helped a lot of people be able to spend more time together and be able to focus on one another-unfortunately, the lockdown has made us home with the kids 24/7 do no daytime play for us-have to save it all for bed time

 

I'm a massage therapist and offer my clients full body sensual massages. Most of them enjoy me giving them a happy ending and enjoying a pleasurable orgasm. It's not uncommon for some of them to get carried away and let the appointment become fully sexual.

 

I can imagine how it may be difficult to find private time when kids are around. This is what we all have to go through. Ours are grown up and left home. So we can have some carefree naughty time.

 

I would love to be but she doesn’t like massages lol

 

One of my favorite forms of foreplay....

 

My wife loves to start with me giving her a massage. It definitely sets the mood. We start with a normal back and shoulder massage. I eventually work my way down to her legs and inner thigh. I then usually grab a sneak peak of her pussy to see if she is getting wet yet. Even better is when I can smell her juices starting to flow. Once I smell that i instantly get hard and I’ll start teasing her. I’ll rub around her pussy to get her even more wet. I then work a finger or two in her and she is ready for my hard cock.

 

I did once the first time I met a new fwb, something she asked for. Absolutely no sexual touching during so while I took my time with the massage I couldn’t wait. She was worse I think, when she spread her legs to let me do her inner thighs she was dripping!
I still refrained from touching her sexually until the end, then she received what she needed after. Her first g spot orgasm ever.
I ended up having a nice titfuck and edged 3-4 times before letting it go.

 

We do occassionally,and when we do, the sex becomes more rewarding and orgasam is more powerful.

 

A good massage is a great start, rub her down in baby oil all over. Then im ready to have fun.

 

We almost always start with a slow massage. My wife loves her back to be scratched and rubbed. From there I wander to her ass, thighs and stroke and pull her hair. By now she’ll roll onto her back and I’ll tease her pussy lightly touching or briefly rubbing her clit. I’ll massage her tits and fold her nipples and feel them get hard. I then will focus on rubbing her clit until she orgasms. While she is still in her O I’ll slide my middle two fingers into her until I’m rubbing that little rough patch deep inside her of her G spot. At this point it wont take long for her to cum again, this time it usually is pretty hard. And like the other night she was furiously jacking me off while she came. My pre cum was flying all over. She knows Im not going to stop giving her pleasure until I cum so she wants me to because she is so sensitive she is squirming and bucking and moaning while her hand alternately slams into my balls then slides up to the tip of the head in a blur. Im not going to last long at this point.
My only wish is we would do this more often. And it a mystery to me why she doesn't want to more. Once in 6-12 months is enough for her.

 

Yes, it creates a sensual, relaxing atmosphere and can help set the mood for sexual activity,It can be used to give and receive massages as a form of foreplay, which can help increase arousal and pleasure etc, my favorite one by far is this one I would recommend to everyone Massage Oils - Shop Body Massage Oils for Hot Foreplay

 

It was not erotic, it was full body actual massage to a woman who never experienced orgasm from a guy, she described the massage that excluded anything sexual at first
She was loving it a lot so she relaxed and trusted me, and I knew she was turned on and anticipating the sexual part after because when she spread her legs when I worked on her inner thighs she was dripping!
I had never seen that before.
But I didn’t touch until the very end.
And she experienced her first orgasm given to her. I earned to have whatever I wanted that day

 

Yes, if we've got the time. I'll lay on the side of the bed and he'll stand and give me a massage. It's relaxing and gets me in the mood or puts me to sleep... both have happened. We've worked out a kinda nonspoken rhythm. He'll stay on my back and keep it non-sexual until I open my legs a little or if I'm not into sex, I'll wait until he's next to me and give him a BJ. However, it's so relaxing that I have fallen asleep more than once.

 

I love the honesty, and I understand!