I definitely prefer handjobs over blowjobs. I can only tell from my experiences, but I think blowjobs can be hot but the girls usually focus too much on it. Also I usually don't like to come inside her mouth because they usually hold back or it gets too sensitive. With handjobs I can really spray it out and not get blocked or held back. I am not sure whether I just don't really like bjs or that most girls weren't so good(I could tell they didn't want to but since it's customary). My ex girlfriend really loved to do it and I could definitely tell. With handjobs it's even worse. I only had a few good partners in it, and they enjoyed it themselves. Of course communication is key which is just better with others. But to answer your question, I really like them. Even more than sex with condom.
A handjob can be great when done well, but all the time I'm thinking why don't you just suck it? I can give myself a handjob....I've sure had a lot of practice.. It's about grip, pressure, speed, maybe lube - not ...no...here, hold it like this....no, don't strangle it....no, don't rub the skin raw... I know you like to watch and I do appreciate the effort, but a handjob not my first choice.
Hands jobs are just part of the overall play and pleasure for my wife and I. It’s whatever mood we’re in. It’s not something done all the time, but if my wife wants to see me cum squirt up close then she blow me and stroke me.
I'm sure there would be some pyrotechnics coming from the end of the phallus. When my partner gives me a HJ it always ends with me seeing stars.
Maybe you should try a women's touch. I have had a lot of women do to my cock what I cannot duplicate. I have tried but can't seem to do it as they did. I don't know what her fingers do to make me go off like I do but the feeling is fantastic.
It always feels better having it done for me as opposed to doing it myself. I’m also quite fortunate in that I usually release a lot of semen, if it’s a new partner doing it for me I enjoy sharing the explosion with her
An attentive partner who listens and does it right, oh yeah anytime! Same goes for a partner doing it for you it you are fine with them having fingers inside of you.
My girlfriend is brilliant at it her satisfaction is to look at the expression on my face and that tells her that she is pleasing me. She can then see the length and thickness she will getting when I enter her and then I can see the expression on her face