To the asshole whos talking shit...

To whom ever the asshole is that thought it would be funny to talk shit to my boyfriend. Go screw yourself. Your not going to fuck with my relationship. I don't understand where some asshole gets off PMing my boyfriend and saying something stupid like, "your girlfriends a flirt". I'm sure more was said but the point is that its immature and none of your business if I reply to threads saying things like "hot stuff" or something else stupid along those lines. I say that messing around and it isn't hitting on someone else or meant to hurt my boyfriend. So, with that said, I will not be replying to PMs sent to me because I'm not going to talk to anyone who might possibly think its funny to go to my boyfriend and talk shit. I'm sure its someone I'm friends with too since they know my boyfriend's screen name. It is a little strange a friend would do that to me and I'm not sure why they would (unless its someone I am no longer friends with). So if your not female and you don't have a question that is about dreadlocks or something else I know don't bother messaging me. I won't be replying. Its bullshit I can't even have friends online without someone being a shady asshole. With that said, I'm sorry to anyone who is actually nice to me that I will not be talking to anymore. I love my boyfriend and I don't want to deal with stupid drama.

 

it was me!! i confess! no im just kidding thats ome fucked up shit.

 

lol...
It is fucked up bullshit. I'm angry as hell right now too.

 

I know you didn't do it.
well you are a great friend and I'd like to point out that your JUST a friend and theres nothing more... I don't know what else to say. For now I'm not talking to anyone. I'm sorry but we will all hang out at nationals and then my boyfriend can be friends with you too and I won't have to worry about anyone claiming that because we talk that there must be more to it.

 

oh my goodness...

but so what if you're a flirt?

*flirts with earthymama*

it *is* rude for someone to stir shit, however.

 

Want me to beat whoever up for ya?

just reassure your boyfriend... guys are suckers for compliments. :H

 

Oh bummer. You got a boyfriend? I thought I might get somewhere if I kept flirting.

 

So you're a flirt eh? *winkwink*.. whatcha think.. wanna turn me into a lesbian tonight?

*grin*

Hell.. yeah.. that's fucked up.. how come you don't know who it was? Your bf got the PM right, so he knows the screenname? Don't get too paranoid.. just ask who sent it and deal with that person, or you'll miss out on some great friendships here!

Oh.. and post the name so we can publicly lynch him/her!

 

wow whoever it was sounds immature, its not like sayin "oh i want your nuts" or "oh your hot" to someone over the internet means your going to get on a bus and go fuck them..... why wold that person think they could make someone jealous over the internet..........

 

lol believe me if I get the s/n there will be hell to pay :X

 

I don't get it either. Theres no way in hell I'd fuck up something with someone I love and am getting married to for some random person I don't even know. Seriously, I've got better things to do. I can't help it if I'm a flirt I guess. I thought I was being my normal self. It won't stop me from hitting on all the girls though :X
lol I think its funny and I'm being friendly, I'm obviously not gay so I don't see whats wrong with saying silly things to other females. Thats just my personality and I do it in real life too right in front of him.

 

It sounds to me like youre blowing it waaaayyy out of proportion.

 

you didn't hear how upset he was

he said he didn't know what to believe and that made me so angry
this is the first guy that I've been with since a horrible relationship I had and it took alot to trust and I fell so in love with him. He means the world to me and he treats me better than any other guy has. The thought of him leaving me kills.

 

I agree with velvet. You can't just deny the possibilities of some good friendships here due to one asshole in the forums.

Instead, just let your boyfriend in on some of your flirtings. After all, it is just flirting, not like you'd act upon it. Be as open and honest with him to give him little reason to doubt you. Show him some of the remarks you've made that can be taken as flirting. Take away any ammunition that can be used against you.

And try to find out who sent the PM. That way you can deal with them as opposed to losing some potentially cool people in your life.

 

ah, man, that's really shitty. i'm sorry someone had to go and be a killjoy fucker.

 

wow, that really sucks. i hope that everything works out for you and your man, earthy mama. someone really needs to get a new hobby if they've got nothing better to do than to mess in someone else's relationship.

 

I'm taking a guess and thinking that it may be my ex... he seems to stalk me out every few months or so to stir up my life which sucks(which he has done on here in the past). Who knows, maybe not. I don't know, I've calmed down and I'm not going to ignore my good friends. When I find out whos talking crap I'll deal with them but in the mean time I'm not going to ignore everyone just because I don't know whos trying to upset me. I know my good friends aren't at least. I'm depressed over alot of crap to begin with...I just get too sensitive. I take too much to heart. We don't see each other much so I've been feeling lonely. All I wanted were some people to talk to. Is that too much to ask? lol

 

Was it me?

 

ah, man, i had to run and hide from a stalking ex. if you need to talk, just pm me. i'm sorry someone's giving you shit.

 

You should make a thread about it