got a problem!! gulp

well...

I met this guy on Friday, we got very drunk, *I know no excuse* lol..
and one thing led to another....

We had sex...

after about 5 different positions, and 45 min of constant pounding...

He was done, and I went to the bathroom.
....


now for the bumpy acward part of the story lol.

I got off the toilet and noticed the water was red...

I inspected my self... and I had tore....

umm being drunk still, half falling on my ass at the time I
didnt know what to think or do. I must have been
sitting in the bathroom for like 15 min before he came to check on me...

He knocked on the door and and asked if i was ok..
I didnt reply.. he told me he was coming in..
he walked in *I didnt lock the door...*

He asked if I was ok again.. I said no...
He said that there was a huge stain of blood on his bed.. :&

yea.....

thats how that went... I dont know why that happened....


I dont have my "monthy visitor :H"
and I have had sex two times before this with a different guy....

why would I bleed so much now...
I guess I just want to know if this is normal....

Sorry this post was so long...

 

im me if u want

 

Kinda off topic... lol

but umm..

yea... my aim isnt working...

 

hmmmmm was he on the large side?


did you stop bleeding shortly after?


i dont think its really anything to worry about but might just want to go get checked out by a doc anyways..

 

No, I have been bleeding for about two days now..... just spotting though...

He wasnt on the large size...... I dont think??? From experience, I dont believe he was.. I think he was average :H....

I hate the Doctor.... ugh

 

yeah if your last partner was small and your new partner is large you'll bleed a little until you get used to the size. But you shouldn't be bleeding that much I would see a doctor.

 

yea i didnt think it was normal... gulp....

 

if you're still bleeding a few hours afterward you really might have done some damage down there. Nothing that won't heal up though. Are you naturally tight? When you AREN'T drunk, is sex easy or do you need to work it in? I'm guessing you just tore up some tissue and that's it. All wounds "spot" a little while they heal up. If it continues to bother you, see a doctor, but I can't imagine that you did something serious.

sorry about the bed incident. I've had one of those. It's always super embarrassing.

 

two days!!!!



yeah time to go to the doctor. Go to a planned parenthood they are so much more understanding about this stuff then a regular family doc!

 

I might be naturally tight. I practice kaggles and when the first time I had sex it was very painful. ummm I guess it is for every girl though...??? :&
The second time I did it, It was just as painful. lol
And now this...

o well... what can ya do??

 

nope, it's not abnormal, it's happened to me before. if he's kinda long...well, anyway, it aggravates your inner bits, kinda starts a breakthough bleeding. i've gone to the doctor for it and everything. you're probably just built on the small side in there and have to be careful how much he "feeds" you and how hard he does it. after a while, you'll get used to the size, your body will eventually accomodate him. some women just have somewhat smaller equipment and it takes longer.

 

i probably wont see this guy again...

it was kinda a one night thing...

:&

 

just as good. if it carries on past a couple days spotting, i might see a doc, but other than that, it's pretty normal for the more ... petite ... among us.

 

either way, it's nothing to be embarassed about. guys know that girls have different things that happen to them. He probably feels guilty that he hurt you. and as long as the bleeding has subsided, i wouldn't even worry about going to a doctor. just take it easy and don't walk around too much.

 

SOMETIMES the first few times you have sex (this happened to me) your hymen doesnt tear all the way. It probably tore the rest of the way due to your rough and pounding sex session.

Only a guess, though

 

yeah id say because of your very limited previous intercourse sessions + doing kaggle exercises you were very tight and being drunk he didnt work his member into you slowly he just pushed it in with force (causing a tear, which will heal up quick if you dont ahve intercourse for a while, its like a scab on your elbow...if you keep your elbow form too much activity the scab will heal but if you bend it this wya and that then the scab will continue to keep breaking open) and you didnt notice until after you were done having intercourse.(goddamn i sound so smart!)

 

I didn't bleed that much my first time, and the guy was pretty big. I think you should see a doctor, that's way too long to be bleeding your third time having sex.

 

well, you may just be built a little bigger, and he was just a little gentler.

 

thanks everyone for the awesome advise lol.

the bleeding has totally cleared up, so its all good..

i am going to hold off on the random hard sex for a while....

GULP >^^<

 

sometimes when i get a good slam i rip a little bit... that lil space between your **** and your bum. its really painful for a few days- eventually you'll heal yourself and are more than likely to do it again. (happens to me all the time. my boyfriend is hung)