so, pretend your young and horny, you are a guy and have friends who are girls, but their just friends. but your sick and fucking tired of platonic relationships with the opposite sex. you want some action, but not necessarily a relationship. the girl in questioin has probably never had sex before, but maybe she has. either way, shes generally not very promiscuous or flirtatious. is it *offensive* for a guy to ask for casual sex from a girl that happens to be a friend? you see, i have it in my mind that girls would find it totally disgusting to be asked this, even by a good looking guy. but apparently im wrong, because it seems lots of people have casual sex, like its nothing. and in fact, if any girls who were friends with me, or ones i dont even know, asked me for sex, i would oblige with a huge fucking smile on my face. of course. i wouldnt think it was disgusting or offensive. secondly, how do you go about bringing it up? especially in a friendship where theres never much said about sex-just basic, everyday things are talked about. is the belief that i, and many other guys hold, that girls are generally uninterested in sex and that they need an emotional attatchment before they can have sex really just a myth? are they like guys, where they would fuck anything of the opposite sex, regardless of emotional attatchment? or would they really do what i fear, and slap me in the face, running the other way screaming bloody murder, and never talk to me again. Cheers
1) No, we don't. Some of us aren't even seeking LTR's for the time being. (I run my own businesses; a S/O won't work.) 2) Fuck buddies are healthy and normal, but you'll just sense when that's what a girl wants. IE, one of you says the other is really attractive; sexual tension rises.
You dont wana ask someone you suspect hasn't had sex before if she wants to be a fuck buddy, because most girls, after they're first time with the guy that 'popped' them (for lack of a better term), would expect a relationship, you, just wanting a physical relationship with her would only fuck her up. No good. Go for a chick who you know has done it before and who you get along with well enough to talk to, so when you guys are just talking, mention it too who ever the girl might be and and ask her what she thinks about the whole fuck buddy idea. Not all girls hate sex, just some girls (yes girls) can be a little apprehensive to talk about it alot because it can make them seem like sluts to some people etc etc, WHICH SUX BIG TIME! But yer, good luck with the whole fuck buddy situation. Hope that helps ya some, if not then ohwell.
dont just bluntly come out and ask for sex.. you will probably get a boot in your ass for it lol. If you think she is a virgin, i wouldent try to get into her pants... most girls dont want to loose their virginity to some guy who just want to casually fuck. although thats how i lost mine ... anywho... talk to her, get to know her... find out what she likes, if she is a virgin.. if you are her friend, then respect her and dont ever take advantage...
