Question for the married bi guys

My first time sucking a dick was at a gay bath house too. I was curious for a long time, then had my dick sucked in a truck by a guy - which made me want to suck a dick even more. I walked around a bit to get the lay of the land. I went in the steam room that had a long bench in it. I noticed that if guys were sitting that meant they wanted to suck a dick and if they were walking around, it meant they wanted their dick sucked.
I watched for a bit, guys sucking guys and then walked around a bit more. I went back in the steam room and sat way down at the end of the bench, there was no one in there at the time - in about 30 seconds a guy walked in, hard, and he walked all the way down to where i was sitting on the bench. He turned to face me, with his dick about one inch from my mouth. I told myself i had been wanting to do this so i reached out and took his dick and put it in my mouth - and it was so GREAT, the feeling of a dick in my mouth, my lips sliding up and down on it. I was really into it and gave him a good blow job.
I went on to suck three other dicks that first day there

 

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Yes, the wives do get so turned on by it

 

Yeah im going to be honest my sex life at home kind of sucks. My wife doesn't like oral sex so I haven't been able to eat pussy in about 2 years. We barely have sex once a week and even then its bland as hell with me doing all the foreplay and work. I'd feel terrible if I had an affair with another woman so i don't cheat that way. Having fun with another guy just feels different and its more of two guys doing a favor for each other and less of an emotional thing. Which is why I like it.

 

The first time was better than I expected. Even though I wanted it. It was a combination of I’m finally doing this, and this feels really good. The load was something I anticipated and without much thought I swallowed it.

 

I totally agree with everything you said. My only "issue" is the double standards society places on people.
While it seems perfectly ok for a woman of any age to "explore or experiment" with other female, and nobody bats an eyes. It's even cool, hip, and trendy if that happens in their younger days, and alcohol is involved... Then it's almost encouraged.

Yet any time a guy wants to "explore or experiment" with another guy, then society wants/does to automatically apply the "gay label" on them. It's as if we don't have those same freedoms to explore/act on any kind of same-sex attractions without criticism/defamation, or being told it's wrong. There's still people out there that fully accept lesbian and bisexual women, and even accept gay men, but they'll say there's no such thing as bisexual men... That it's just a "stepping stone" along the way to being completely gay. That's wrong, and definitely needs to stop. But how ?

I firmly believe people (everyone) should do what they want, whatever makes them happy, and that includes who they choose to have as sexual partners, as long as it all involves consenting adults.
Nobody should ever really have to worry about what other people's opinions are as long as they're not risking their own or their partners' health and safety.

 

I've been bi for decades. It's actually easy to do if you don't have the compulsive need to talk to your female partner about your sex life with men and if you take all necessary safe-sex precautions. And actually, most of the married bi men I've met are in the same boat, with none of them worrying too much about the double standard you mentioned.

The male bisexual subculture is alive and well. We know what our needs are, and we take care of them: intimacy and explosive orgasms that are not automatically associated with lifetime commitment.

 

Oh my, I was really nervous and hoping I'd do ok. I had gotten several really good blow jobs from this gay man when I asked if I could suck on his. Again, I was really nervous as I took hold of it and placed it into my mouth...my heart was racing (voice inside my head: you're sucking a dick) as I felt it harden in my mouth and heard him moaning so I began sucking harder and deeper as he grabbed the sides of my head to force his now raging hard cock as deep as I could take...gagging, choking, and drooling all over it but kept going. He pulled out and blew his load on his belly so he could wipe it up and eat it. I enjoyed it but wasn't sure if I wanted to do it again but to my surprise I kept getting urges to suck dick. Thus my search for cock continued and Craig's List made it quite easy as I began hooking up with other married guys for mutual head. After 6 months and probably sucked 10-12 different guys, providing some 40 blow jobs I was addicted to sucking cock and acquired a taste for cum.

 

I had fantasied about it for well over 20 years. One night in an extremely stressful week in a hotel I was really horny and wanted to do something fun. I was hopeful a guy on doublelist would come over that wanted to jerk off together but he kinda flaked. I was pretty disappointed and at the moment decided that was the night some kind of sex with a guy was going to happen. I went on Grindr and started talking to a nice guy that was willing to come over. I was extremely nervous so I showered and got ready and he actually showed up. I had told him I wasn’t sure how far I was willing to go and he was cool with whatever. We stroked ourselves for a while then each other. Then I ask him if I could go down on him and I did. It was pretty cool finally doing it. He wasn’t huge so I was able to deep throat him which I was kinda excited about. I didn’t use a condom which was risky and a risk I wouldn’t take again but he didn’t cum in me. The only thing I didn’t care for was he was uncut which wasn’t horrible but I would prefer cut and to be with a guy that I know and trust because I really want to have him cum in my mouth and maybe more.