Not always, but most of the time my crotch is pretty tender and sore after sex. Not the entire thing, but just my lower outter lips. I'm wondering what it could be. At first I thought it was cause I wasn't wet enough. But I've made sure to be good and wet before sex, and I still am quite tender afterwards. Could it be I'm just not used to his girth? It seems to lessen more and more each passing time we have sex. What else could it possible be? Has anyone else had this? Vaginas are complicated things.
I know you said you make sure you're good and wet before sex but how about using lube anyways. Or mayby try some vaginal cream after sex to sooth the area. If that doesn't work, see the doc.
umm i know that after sex i always get really sore. sore thighs, sore lower back and neck, and sore labia.... it sucks.
I had the problem of sore outter lips last time I had sex.. I think it was just the guy's bone pressing too hard against me that made me sore though. Maybe that's why it hurts you too. *shrug*
I think it must be from his pelvic bone bumping into me too hard. What can I say, he's a passionate one I was on top last night and it didn't hurt one bit afterwards. So that must be it.
