I've never done this before, I really really want to cum on my husbands face while I'm straddling him. But I'm a bigger girl and worried he wouldn't enjoy it because he might struggle to breathe and will have to keep stopping. We have been together 8 years and I'm shy to ask him
I'm with a Big Beautiful Woman. She was very shy about it also, for the same reasons. We have oral a lot, and she knows how much I LOVE when she squirts on my face. I talked with her many times assuring her that I'm going to love it, and If I need air I'll simply open my mouth and get some air. It was probably a year or so later that she completely caught me off guard. I thought it was going to be the normal "hop on me and ride my cock". But all of a sudden, she held my hands down on the bed and took control while sitting on my chest. She looked me in the eyes and said "How bad do you want to eat this pussy?". I replied "I need to taste your juices". She held my arms down and slowly started to rub her pussy up and down my face. I will never forget that feeling of her taking away all control and eventually having multiple squirting orgasms on my face and tongue. It was amazing!! Now, you two can go about it however you want. But communication is key. You need to talk and let him know what your interests are. Don't wait years down the line and find out what you've both been missing. And if it doesn't work out, you know you tried.
Talk with him first. Another option is to be in position but not touching his face. Let him slowly move closer at his comfort level. If his hands start pulling you closer, you know he's liking it. 69 is also a great position to practice with. It's one of my favorite. And if you try it and he's not comfortable, hold his hand, give him a kiss with a big smile, and thank him for being honest. Move on and enjoy whatever else the 2 of you love. And want to try.
I love a woman to sit on my face , i would just bring it up after a few drinks maybe , iam sure youll be happy with the answer lol
I’m going to go against the grain here. There is nothing in life like sexual spontaneity. Lay it on him! Tease him with it, hover your clit over his lips and land it for moment here and there. Tease yourself with his tongue. See how it’s going, he’ll let you know.
Does he often go down on you? If yes, does he do this because he loves it, or because he feels like he has to? If he loves it, then this will probably be his dream. I love going down on my wife and would love her to tie me to the bed and ride my face until she can't sit up anymore. However, she is the one who is not comfortable doing this. Chances are if he loves going down on you he won't care that you are 'a bigger girl' he will just love your clit being right in his face. Only you know the intricacies of your relationship, how kinky or vanilla are you? But bring this up with him as soon as possible, and everything else you would ever want to do. Get all your desires out in the open so you guys can start having the sex you both want.
You must ask...Let him know it's a desire of yours. My wife is a bigger woman but can only orgasm through oral. She grinds that pussy in my face (my request) and I love it as my entire face becomes sloppy wet with her juices until she finally orgasms all over me.