So, I have two questions really. I have been with my boyfriend, though not physically, for almost 10 months. This weekend, he was able to come down here (he lives in Nebraska, I live in Georgia) and I spent the night with him while my parents though I was at a friend's house. He's 19 and I'm 17. We lit a bunch of candles and got romantic slowly as we worked out way up to sex. Then, when we decided it was time, he couldn't get it hard enough and as he was putting the condom on, he had to run to the bathroom to throw up. When he came back to bed, he told me he wasn't ready right then and I was ok with it, so we watched a movie and ate some ice cream instead. A few hours later, we decided to try again and he couldn't get hard. We love each other without a doubt, which can be proven by the lengths he's gone through to see me, so that's not the problem. I won't see him for at least another few months and I don't really know why he can't get hard, but I want to be able to fix it for next time because I know he felt horrible about it. Could being a virgin cause that? Or else, what else could be the problem? Also, after the first try, he fingered me and it hurt a little bit but it wasn't that bad. He went to go wash his hands and there was blood but I told him not to worry. The next morning, I looked down at the sheet and there was blood everywhere. I've had sex once before, about a month ago, but it was forced. Still, there was no blood then. What could he have done to cause me to bleed? I'm not really worried, just curious.
Well, being nervous could have caused your boyfriend to not getting it hard. I mean, has has travelled a long way to see each other, and he wanted to make everthing perfect, and these thoughts just tend to not make it work. About your bleeding, I don't know.
About the sex, could be nerves, could be who knows what. About the blood: go see your OB/GYN, it could be ANYTHING. DO NOT TAKE CHANCES WITH YOUR ANATOMY, IF SOMETHING SEEMS WRONG, GET IT CHECKED OUT!!!!!!!!!!
I´ve never heard of anything so crazy,throwing up? Hes maybe into the platonic thingy. I´ve met women that was so ugly that I´ve nearly puked when I woke up in the morning but before when u´r going in for the kill,never. Any sickness,bad smell,pus,deformented things? Maybe if u have a lot of metallrings an stuff in u´r pussy he got scared I know I wood Give him a sixpack next time,if he comes back so he wont be so nervous. Good Luck! An use a lot of lubrication it makes the fucking easier an sometimes funny sounds u can enjoy if u don´t like lovemaking
He was probably nervous - that's why he went limp on ya. Stage fright... anxiety can do awful things to our bodies. Taht also may have caused the throwing up, or he may have been sick and not wanted to tell you, because he really wanted to be intimate with ya. I would just shrug it off, personally. I mean, shit happens, and you guys will have another shot at it. Maybe not tomorrow, but in time. I'm not entirely sure what could have caused your bleeding. It may be that he was rougher than you recall, or maybe he had long nails and they nicked inside of you. Some women do spot quite often during sex though. You may want to talk to your doc about it, to make sure everything's ok down there for ya. and I'm just gonna mention... you're 17, nearly an adult. Your parents should be ok with you having a 19yo boyfriend. Heck, if you've been dating for 10 months, they shouldn't freak out over you spending an evening with him every now and then. Are you on birth control? Because condoms can break, and are never 100% effective.
i agree with almost everyone...it just could be nerves...it happens, my man does it...that or stress...and about the bleeding, you need to get it checked out ASAP. dont worry about the man, you'll get another chance at it
