I was supposed to see this guy I really like but he said “make sure your pussy is ready and fresh for me” and I got so offended... like why was he trying to tell me to get cleaned?! He’s been down on me already and said he loves it and wants to again etc, but these words made me feel like maybe he doesn’t like the taste or the smell and wants to make sure I do take a shower before seeing him, LOL.. I told him he came across as a bit rude and that I do have some personal hygiene, and if he thinks I don’t, then I’m gross and he shouldn’t want to have sex with me... and he got super annoyed saying that’s not what he meant and in the end he doesn’t wanna see me anymore. WTF?! Why can’t I be free to say I don’t like something. And, didn’t tell him this, but tbh I found the expression “make sure you’re pussy s all fresh” disgusting I don’t know why
I can see why you were offended. I would never say anything like that to a woman I want to have sex with. If the smell/taste bothers him, then he should have politely and discreetly told you that. But I don't think the smell bothers him or he wouldn't have gone down on you in the first place and said he enjoyed it and wants to do it again. And he should have apologized for offending you. In the end, I'm sure you'll be able to find another guy who's much more polite and treats you well.
Oh, thank you! I was wondering if I was actually the crazy one, cause that’s how he made me feel like, just for saying out loud that I didn’t like the way he talked to me! And told me I misinterpreted.. but never actually explained what he meant! can’t be bothered with people like that
Sounds to me that the guy was being a shitheel. By asking you to be clean he was assuming you're dirty and you have or might have skunk pussy. He was imo disrespecting you. Personally I think you should have dumped his ass. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
I agree with the other posters. This guy sounds very rude and should have ZERO say on your hygiene and bodily health.
I can't tell you how to take what he said. I think most people have varying levels of performing oral. As much as I love performing on my wife, we always make sure we're "fresh" when it happens. There are some spontaneous moments of course, but we sort of know how "fresh" we are. Now speaking for myself, wifey knows that I'm licking, kissing, sucking, and slurping crack to crack when I make that comment. She is never offended and knows where I'm coming from. Perspective is important. If you know the guy well, then you should know his intentions when making that comment.
Some people dont know how to sexy talk. Im sure it's not what he meant to say, but i do understand that the wording was wrong. To me that sounds more like porno talk. Nonetheless, it was wrong of him and should of apologized.
Guy was definitely being a shithead. The only hygiene thing I would dare ask is about shaving, but that is because I prefer smooth, but not so much that it is a deal breaker.
