Sexualization of the anus and rectum

I really want to eventually try this, so I looked it up on what appeared to be a legitimate web last week. I believe I read that a girl can orgasm just via anal sex. I'll have to find that again.

 

In my experience, all or nearly all women are capable of orgasming from anal, it just takes more time and practice to learn it for some while it comes very naturally for others, and it may be more difficult to to reliably do it for some while it happens consistently every time for others. With practice, though, and a focus on pure anal stimulation for an extended period of time, most can learn to orgasm from anal. I believe more women can orgasm from pure anal than they can from pure vaginal.

 

To avoid pain, lots of lube, and start with a finger massage of the anal muscle ring. It will relax like any other muscle. Be gentle with your lady. Also try butt plugs in varying sizes. Start small and work up slowly to larger sizes.
I just tried a medium sized butt plug on my wife (she thought it would hurt like hell, and was very spooky of it), and by the slow finger massage / lots of lube method, it slipped into her with barely any push from me. She didn't even know it was all the way in!! She liked it a lot. I used my tongue and a vibe to give her about 6 orgasms that day with the plug in her bottom. No pain - just pleasure.

 

That's the way to do it, for sure. Anal shouldn't hurt when done right. It just feels amazing.

 

Anal orgasms are amazing- a totally different sensation than a regular O - but you know it when you have one. As a straight male I just use my finger to stimulate the pleasure points but the best part is that you can have multiple ones in a row and some last an insanely long time. I speak from experience. I have had at least two dozen today- not bad for a Monday- and a great way to kick off the week!

 

Maybe you should consider buying a strap-on dildo and asking your wife or girlfriend to use it on you.

 

My lady comes from anal sex every time we do it. Even with the experience, I still take it slow. She seems to really get off on the slow and steady. As a matter of fact, once I get it in, I'll just stand there at times and let her dictate the pace. She said they equal her vaginal orgasms. I make my dick jump when I'm in it and she seems to really get off on that as well. Just take your time. Find your rhythm. She tried anal with a guy prior to me and she says his dick wasn't as big. I truly believe it is the chemistry of the two or three or four...

 

Not really a fan of anal sex with women -- I'm afraid I will hurt them. Men? Bend over and take it. Not much on receiving either.

 

I love it when a woman sucks my ass,.i get off on it

 

It is definitely designed for sex just based on the sheer pleasure of it. I am a straight guy but, enjoy anal stimulation. Been doing for probably the last 10 to 12 years...

 

Not interested- but a well lubed finger works every time...

 

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I have so got this SO down doing it solo. Best way to prepare for sharing the experience with someone else special down the road hopefully. But for now its absolutely wonderful!!! Basically I have learned to almost have anal Os on command using a finger, creating lasting contractions, the most amazing pleasure for as long as I want. It's difficult sometimes to stop, realizing I have to get out of bed or get to work on time. Again amazing pleasure and an absolute gift from heaven!!!

 

Sparky Paul - I'm straight too, but I love anal stimulation too. Many guys are afraid it means they're gay or bi if they like something in their butts - SO FALSE !! Having your lady stimulate you there makes things more intense. The pleasant feelings gained will convince men once they try it.Prostate massages with vibrating stimulators made specifically for that purpose will send a guy into a whole-body orgasm. Very intense!!

 

Thanks for your response- there’s nothing gay or bi about it at all - I feel like a lot of men and women are missing out who haven’t explored this highly sexual part of their bodies- I am so glad I found out about it when I did - sort of in my early 50s. I do wish I had figured this out way sooner but I guess it’s never too late! Again, an absolute gift of pleasure from heaven!!!

 

Your lovely anus was indeed made for pleasure too - don’t let anyone else make you feel differently!!!

 

Not to mention the more experience you have doing it, the better the anal Os you get - I am serious - they just seem to deliver even more and more pleasure with time and practice!!! They also make your butthole feel so awesome and relaxed afterwards too. Sort of like walking on air! God all this is making me horny! I need some more P spot pleasure now!!!!

 

MusicFan - Isn't it the truth?!! The anal muscle ring will relax just like any other muscle does when massaged gently. Lots of lube and any woman can send her guy to another level of orbit this way. And he do for her the same way!! If prepped the right way, the anus is definitely another source of super pleasure!! Clean inside and out very well for un-messy, clean, hot fun.

 

I wish you would

 

Well said! Yes indeed clean is best inside and out and very easy to do!

 

Ladies -
When a lady is giving her guy a bj, if she gently uses a lubed finger to massage the outside of his anus, and then slowly inserts it into him - it'll increase the pleasure for him big-time. And then gently do a "come here" motion with her finger on his prostate (finger pointed toward his belly button!). He'll be a quivering puppy for you!! See online pictures of where his prostate is located. It feels like a firm lump about the size of a walnut when you locate it with your finger.

A variation: After you relax his anal muscle with your finger massage, lube a vibrating prostate massager and slowly, gently insert it into him (curve facing his belly button!) Then, as you suck his cock, turn on the vibrations and watch him turn to jelly!! You may have to manipulate the prostate massager a bit to hit "the right spot."

Most guys will be a shaking, jerking pile of pudding if you do either of these methods on him. His orgasm will be VERY INTENSE.