Once a cheater always a cheater?

Dump him

 

I'm not a cheat I have always told the girls that I am with that I play around, it's up to them if they want to dump me. I'm not married and young just having a good time

 

I always tell a woman on the first date: "That if you cheat on me, i will find you and i will bust a gap on your bitch ass."

 

I've never understood the idea of unmarried people "cheating" on each other. If you're shacked up but unmarried, it's kinda impossible to cheat, since there's no vows or commitments. That's why people shack up in the first place- to enjoy the benefits while avoiding the commitment.

Whether to dump someone or even trust them again is up to the individual. None of us can tell you what you should do there, as we're not in your situation. This is why you have a brain. Use it, and good luck.

 

I would never be involved with anyone who thought cheating was acceptable.

 

I agree. You revenge cheating only makes things worse and if you really love him you can focus on fixing your relationship and moving on to happier times together if possible. I have been there myself. It hurts and you sometimes can't help but think about what happened but stay strong.