Intrigued with swinging/swapping. Might one be opening a pandora's box? So many questions...

Sorry short for lifestyle

 

Thanks. Have you visited sex clubs as part of a couple?

 

Once but there isnt any where i live

 

The thing about sex clubs, that my wife and I have talked about, is that, as a spectator, you could walk around and look for a people who project the type of energy that resonates with you. But, that is assuming there's plenty of exhibitionists to choose from.

On the other hand, watching a single couple like we did...you get what you get whether you have any sort of chemistry with them or not.

I have gone back and forth on the clubs. I now think it could be a good thing for us and will check them out given the opportunity (there are none close to us).

 

We have choice of a few where we are but I wouldn’t want to be too close to home. We have found one that we are keen to try out it’s just deciding the right time now. I think when we do go it will be with a totally open mind and minimal expectations

 

Having minimal expectations as you say is sound thinking, in my humble opinion. Expectations can easily lead to let downs.

If you think about it, it would be nice to hear about your experience.

 

I agree dont have any expectations

 

Don't have any expectations, but expect the unexpected.