Fellas...What Do You Have To Offer A Woman???

Fellas, what do you have to offer a woman?

Far to many times, have I heard the complaint about women who insist that their man financially take care of them. You guys seem to hold some disdain for that idea. In addition to that, a lot of you believe that a man`s place is not in the kitchen or routinely doing household chores. So we, as Ladies, have established that you are not willing to financially support your woman or take care of the home front by doing chores. So outside of the meaningless answer of sworn emotional fulfillment that is also being given by the woman, what physical matter do you have to offer besides pe*nis? Please do not say mental stimulation, because for over half of you, that is NOT sufficient payment, for what that woman is about to endure. We don`t need for you to kill the deer and drag it to the cave anymore. We need for you to kill those hours at work and drag in the paycheck, but you guys hate when we limit ourselves to financially stable men, but in the same breath will condemn us, if we get involved with a man that doesn`t have a job or a place. You desire for your woman to act like the old fashioned woman, that keeps her mouth shut and gives reverence to her husband, but you abandon the notion of the old fashioned man who had the financial burden of caring for the family. So please, endulge me, what are YOU, as a man, going to provide for the woman in your life????

So, who will be the first MAN to tackle this question????...What Do You Have To Offer A Woman????

The Ladies are patiently waiting for your response!!!!

 

for someone I love I would do anything for them, simple as that.

 

At this point in my life, not much.

 

Hah ... why not ...

What have I got to offer? I'm not stuck in the old mindset of "me man, protect wife, man kill, man make money, hrugh," but I'm certainly not going to lie around expecting my partner to do all the work. I may not be the most physically or mentally hard-working guy in the world, but I do my job as best I can, and I do it well. I'm willing to get my hands dirty for anything worth planting, and I'm willing to die for a woman worth fighting for. I'm all about honour. I'm honest, I'm trustworthy, loyal, and chivalrous. But as an honourable person, I love challenges, and I rarely back down from a fight when my honour's been thrown into question. I am not a coward. You may mistake me for one, as I dislike fighting, and am pacifistic by nature, but when it comes right down to it, I would die before I abandon my cause or my love.

I am a good friend. I'm one of those people who will listen to you rant about your day, and make you laugh to smite down your dismay! But I will always be there for comfort if you are ever upset, or backup if you ever need support. I stand up for what is right, and I seek the truth, and expect no less from you; but I see a strong relationship as a bond between two individuals for emotional release, mental and moral growth, and that's not to neglect the, shall we say, physical comfort.

I believe in philanthropy and doing the right thing, in taking the harder but better path. I'm very open-minded, but also a traditional guy; I value both discipline and insight.

As a male human being, I seek a female human being. Note that you don't see "man" or "woman" here. I am a human, seeking a human. I experience the full range of emotion experienced by all people, be they man, woman, or child, and I seek someone unlimited by old views and stereotypes; someone who, like me, defines themselves as independent.

Thus ends.

 

"We don`t need for you to kill the deer and drag it to the cave anymore."

^^LOL^^

so TripleQQ are in favor of no gender roles at all? beyond breast feeding and Plopping kids outta my birth canal, I'm down for shouldering anything that we could come across...

What I have to offer a girl is her missing symetrical half, but not symetrical in the shape sense...

 

what do I have to offer?

interesting topic - I would say to most women, probably not what they are looking for. I used to think it was the girls I dated and not me, but I truly am not great boyfriend material on certain levels. I'm not really a care taker. I don't have a problem shouldering the financial burden in a relationship, so that's not really what I'm referring too. I'm talking more about night in shining armor type situations where I am dependended on by a woman for her happiness. I used to think that I was, but looking back on the history of women whom I've dated who were looking for that, I really have failed miserably everytime in providing that. I'm more the type of guy who will try and help you learn how to take care of yourself and be happy on your own. I believe one needs to be happy alone in order to be happy in a relationship. This is my belief though, not what I'm saying everyone should believe. I definitely enjoy being in love and sharing company with a woman, but I am equally as happy being single.

Positive attributes would be that: I am a nice guy, witty, intelligent, good sense of humor, spontaneous and from what I've been told, pretty decent in the sack. I am also a good cook and have no problems cleaning. So yeah, I'll work all day, pay the rent, cook the dinner, clean up afterwoods, offer intelligent and humorous conversations, take you on a spontaneaous trip somewhere and treat you well in bed.

I am no Romeo though. I am really not that romantic of an individual, I'm very independent, blunt, rather aloof and stubborn. I'm not the most affectionate and attention giving type of man either. When a woman becomes angry towards me because of this, I have a strong tendancy to clam up and become further distant and have less desire to give more of the attention she seeks. I'm not the flower sending, love note writing type. I do care a lot for others, but its not something that I express openly and freely all the time.


So yeah, like I said, I don't have what most women are looking for in a relationship, which probably explains why for the most part, I haven't had very many long lasting relationships over the past five years or so. Most of them work out well for the first three months and then fizzle out where the girl ends up either leaving me for another man or I leave her because I get drained and tired of someone being angry at me and threatening to leave me if I don't change.


Oh and I might add, if you can't tell - I'm a very honest person.

 

Thanks for raising this because I believe I do actually have a lot to offer and I would like to explore that.

I'm one of the most sensitive people you are likely to meet and am a good shoulder to cry on if that's what you need. I'll lookout for you and I'll do my best to do what I can to make things easier if you're unhappy - whether that be backing off when you need space or you want to unload a little.

I am fiercly loyal.

I would be willing to give up a lot if needbe.

I also know what I need, and will not be afraid to ask for it, so if you've got a need to give then you won't have a problem with that, but if that's not what you want then I won't expect what I ask for.

I'm honest, I won't beat around any bushes.
I'm a soppy romantic and will make you giggle/blush more often than most of my contempories.
I'm very hardworking and will work both for someone or something I love.
I'm funny (to an extent).
I will make you feel loved.

That's all that springs to mind at the moment.

I'll let you know when I come up with anything else.

Sebbi

 

What do I have to offer?
Well, I'm me...

 

what does a woman have to offer a man...its no different really.

i think its a huge fallacy to think that men expect women to be old fashioned..at least in my world.

I can be a great friend, I can listen, I can make the woman laugh, I'm pretty reliable...

You must know a lot of shitty men if you say mental stimulation isn't enough "for what the woman is going to endure." Do you know a bunch of abusive men, i don't.

it goes both ways, a relationship involves "enduring the other" whether they are a man or woman...its sexist of you to assume that the man is going to be the one putting the woman through hell.

I don't have a family, so i expect that both people will contribute financially...you sound a bit old fashioned when you say that you expect the man to drag home the paycheck..I have helped my wife out financially, and she has helped me.

If we did have kids at some point, yea, it would be fine for me to go earn all of the money.


I would never so much as have a second conversation with a woman who automatically expected the man to support them...to me, that is ancient history...