Oral sex and shaving your privates..

I work in a salon and get a large discount on waxing. Before that I used to only shave prior to a big date or when oral sex was a definite possibility. Shaving is not fun. And besides, I don't mind doing oral sex on a guy who is not shaved.

 

There is a big myth that has developed and evolved somewhere whereby you are considered "dirty" if you don't shave in the delicate regions. This IMO is a load of tosh . The only advantage that comes to mind is that you don't end up with the odd hair in ones mouth. Big deal get over it ! This has never bothered me . When it comes to hygiene I would hope that most people would shower or bathe if the intention is to have a sex session regardless of pubic hair.

 

This is a must. A clean body is a tasty body. On days I am scheduled to meet with a FB I take extra care to deep clean beforehand. Another thing that goes with that is to stay light on the perfume or cologne. Just a light touch in the correct spots drives me crazy with lust. That and a nicely groomed body makes it all so much fun.

 

Not a problem for me, either. I mean if i have a guys cock in my mouth what's the big deal if a stray hair shows up now and then. Big deal...

 

Sounds like she's firm in her convictions. Hate to say it but if you're frustrated now it's only going to get worse as time goes by.

 

I dated a few women between marriages and the first gal wanted me to shave myself smooth. I've always kept my balls shaved so to please her I smoothed it out and she gobbled it up...WOW, she would just go crazy on it and wanted it in her mouth all the time. The next two gals I dated loved that I was shaved smooth just as my present wife does. I guess it's not for everyone, but ever since I shaved myself smooth 7 years ago I've kept it that way and prefer it to be smooth. It's so much more comfortable for me.

 

My husband shaves and I wax...he has never asked me to, nor has any guy...it's just been something I've liked to do.

I don't think asking a partner to do that is necessarily ''wrong,'' but it might come off offensive. If the person wanted to do it to begin with, wouldn't they do it?