I have noticed that I am super embarassed to masturbate in front of my fiancee and to be aggressive with him ( ex: telling him I am super horny and I want him right now.). When ever I cuddle with him and I start to caress his body I get to his belly button and I dont go further down cuz I am shy and unsure if he is in the mood or if he even wants to do anything. I want to do so many things to him the only problem is I get embarassed and self conscious. I know that part of my problem is that I havent felt sexually appealing since I got pregnant. This problem has existed since before i got pregnant. Any opinions, thoughts, or advice would be helpful and appreciated. Thanx a bunch ~Fallen Fairy~
I used to be really comfortable with him but for the past 10 months I had gotten shy and all. Maybe after I have our baby I wont be so shy and self conscious.
in an attempt to speak for "average guys everywhere" If we're in bed with you, we'd like to be having sex with you. we're kind of wired up that way.
Show him what ya got, I doubt he'll mind it one bit.. Men absolutely love feeling wanted by their lady. You have to nurture each others wants and needs in a relationship. You have no reason to be insecure about your pregnancy. Has he ever said anything mean to make you feel like that? I dunno, most of the men I know love an aggressive woman when it comes to sex. Even if he does reject you and doesn't feel like having sex, that's ok. It's not necessarily a bad thing. At least he'll know you WANT him, and I'm sure he needs to feel wanted just as much as you do.
I think it's more his past actions that are making you feel this way as opposed to an issue with you. I would say try to express your feelings to him like I've said before to you but I am learning that I am way naive in assuming men care about womens feelings. So I don't have any advice except good luck on your new baby-how exciting
guys love it, and i'm sure your fiancee is no exception. tease him a bit, and don't be afraid to really throw yourself upon him is all I can say.
I'm sure he wouldn't mind, whatsoever. Just try and relax, be yourself, if you're feeling horny. Tell him. Throw yourself at him once, see what happens. If there's a good reaction (which I'm sure there will be), keep at it. I've never been shy with guys, I've always let them know when and how I want it. They've never complained, either.
