Share your love life! (I am! *grin*)

I don't know, I just felt like talking about my girlfriend and though that if anyone else wanted totalk about their partner, this would be a good spot! Ok now i'm going to rant!

I've been going out with this girl Jenna for a while now. We've been through a lot, I guess it's been about, 8 months. Which is the longest relationship I've ever had. I really love her. So anyways, we were talking and she askes me if I shaved, and I'm like 'yeah...? And?' and she's like, ' no shave *there*? ' she said that while gesturing to my uhh, 'lower regions' ( to which I answered yes ) that was 4 days ago. Two days ago she comes over while me parents are gone, and we're in my room, and well...*blush* we had sex. I'm not sure how it happened, but she was all like, I dunno...I guess you'd call it aroused, and well it did.

But now I feel horrible, because I can't go to my mom and say I had sex. I feel guilty, like I betrayed my mother. So I turned to my pals here on the hip forums for adivce!

 

why do you feel guilty about having a sexual experience with someone you like? well, you're very young, but you're not doing anything against anybody, quite the contrary Are your parents, or your mum in this case very religious and/or against the gay lifestyle?

I was your age when i had sex for the first time, but I didnt tell my mum about (she found out about it when she read my diary *oh jesus*)...she said she felt really dissapointed in me. I will never forget that. Still, I didnt understand why it was so wrong until now. She was worried about me. She felt I was doing stuff behind her back.

I cant tell you whether you're in the wrong here cos you're having sex, cos I'd be a hypocrite, just take it easy, protect yourself and just experience your sexuality in a safe manner.

anyway, i dont know what else to say to help you. Just do what feels right.

 

I have yet to have lesbian sex

 

I had sex with my current girlfriend for the first time two nights ago... after two weeks together. Believe it or not but this is going slow with me. I've known her since I was 14 though. We've been through a lot together - she was the first girl I ever fell for, THE ONE who made me realise that I wasn't straight... This is possibly the weirdest relationship that I've ever been in. She's coming over later too...

 

i unwillfully came out to my parents by my mom discovering letters my girlfriend wrote me graphically describing our sexually deeds in my bedroom. what fun!

 

I went out with this girl for three years, but her parents sent her to boarding school when her mom saw us kissing... Things have never been the same. We used to talk about getting married and spending the rest of our lives together.. I guess we just fell out of love... And now I'm sooooooooo lonely. I need a girlfriend. I guess I'm pretty lucky though, cause I came out to my family when I was 15 or so, and they had no problem with it. My mom even let my girlfriends spend the night. And when I came out at school, it was soooo much easier than I thought it was going to be. I have sooo many girl friends and they all love me. But I just wish all of them weren't strait. Well, I am still awaiting the love of my life... Hopefully she's great! I'm sure she will be.

 

Hey SlickGracey, I love your signature...

 

This eight-month-old relationship that you're in now is the longest relationship you've ever had? You're only 14 years old and you've already had more than one relationship???

Good God, have the times changed! When I was 14 in 1967, if I had acted upon my desire to make love to my tentmate in Boy Scout summer camp, I would have gotten into SCADS of trouble. And that's putting it mildly.

-- Skeeter

 

holy crap... happy birthday ashley!!!

 

Richard and I have been going out for about 3 weeks now, and I don't hate him yet. This is a good sign. He doesn't know how much I like him, and I don't want to tell him because I want it to be a surprise. Sometimes I think he's scared that I'll dump him but he needn't worry.

 

This is so bittersweet for me, reading all of these relationship experiences when I've had none, yet. But it's still encanting to read.

Oh well, my time will come!