I'm currently in a long term relationship and have 2 young children, my partner is great and hasn't done anything to provoke this but lately i find myself longing for casual sex with strangers and I've no idea why!! We have a good sex life so the cause is not lack of quality or quantity but i can't shake the urge to seek out some no strings fun with someone else, I havent acted on this as yet. Anyone else felt this way?? Would love to hear what u guys think!!
I feel like this all the time but to not do the actual act cause it would be cheating I resort to other things like coming on here or other things lol if you wanna know more or talk about it send me a message.
When I started dating my bf 7 years ago, I told him I didn't believe humans were meant to be monogamous. (A)One person can't possible fill all the needs we have. (B) Men have a biological need to spread their seed. For some people that means having a partner and other casual interactions. Some have a significant other along with a secondary partner (bf/gf). I like having sex with men and woman. My biggest turn on, though, is knowing other woman want my man to fuck them, and watching it happen. Knowing he is able to meet women online, and with only his words make them want him, I'm getting wet right now just thinking about it. And seeing his hands all over them, his cock moving from their mouth to their dripping wet pussy. The most delicious sight I've even seen. Back on topic: maybe just bring up to your wife that you'd like to try something. Start with women watching with her. Maybe let her pick out some porn that y'all watch together. When y'all are out shopping or something, ask her opinion about different women that you also find attractive. Whatever you do, just include her.
I'm a masseur and find that many of the women who ask for the most sensual of massages are married, often with children, and while home life and sex is great they just have fantasies they wish to indulge in that their partner would disapprove of. Most common are dressing very sexy/tarty/slutty, drawing attention in public, and taking that sensual massage a lot further.
Sometimes I think about it. The only thing I ever did was masturbate with another women and came on her tits. She loved it. I love my wife so I would never have actual intercourse. But we view oral and masturbation differently.
I'm a guy and routinely I want some strange. I did want to risk losing contact with my kids so I masturbated a lot, viewed porn, tried to strike up the occasional cyber relationship. What you're experiencing is probably a combination of fear of commitment and human nature.
My wife had the same urge after about 10 years of marriage, and we agreed to let her do whatever she wanted. Rules were that it couldn't be with a friend and she had to tell me all about it. She had a few adventures with men she met through her work (not coworkers) until the urge went away. It worked for us.
Is it considered casual sex if I make an appointment when the mood strikes me that ends up in sex? We discuss my wants, needs, and desires after which I enjoy having sex with the consultant. We get busy after we talk and I leave satisfied. No emotional carry over, no strings attached. Just a casual sexual encounter between two consenting adults. It's great therapy.
Im sure most people at some point in life have wanted the same thing hun. But so ling as ur going back home at end of night or next day then I say fill ur needs hun and u may then stop after a period of time x
I've had a thing for years where I find anonymous black guys on the internet, meet them somewhere, suck them off, then never see them again.
Why? Something new and different. Taking your minivan to a new car dealership, and taking a car for a test drive. New, exciting, fun, new experience. When you're done you give them the keys back, get in your mini van (car seats and all) and drive home.
