I get really turned on by the thought of my husband having sex with another woman and i really want to watch. I dont really care if im in the room or if he records it and sends me the videos! Is that weird? Has anyone ever done this before? And where can i find someone that will fuck him
I'll throw an answer to the question. This is a common fantasy within a marriage. There are sub-conscious thoughts going on. First off sex is fun, even just to watch. Second, watching your husband / wife with another validates the sexuality you see in them. Thirdly, you will feel that you have made a good choice, sexually, with the partner you chose to be with. So what about getting someone to engage in sex with your mate? To answer the OP's questions let's start at the first one. "Is that weird?" No it is not. It can be a simple turn on in ones mind. There are a lot of people who enjoy sharing a partner they hold dear to themselves. It's called Voyeurism. The caveat is it isn't socially acceptable. Watching a sexual partner get with someone else isn't everyone's cup of tea. But for those people who are into the idea of it, the thought of seeing their partner play with someone else is exciting. If voyeurism was socially acceptable, it might not be that exciting, would it. "Has anyone ever done this before?" Yes, there have been many couples who seek a third partner and enjoy it. But beware. Watching someone have sex with the one you love can possibly lead to jealousy. It can be unsettling to watch your partner feel something for someone else. There is nothing that can spark jealous feelings like witnessing an emotional connection between your partner and someone else. The idea of our partner developing feelings for another can make you want them even more. But by sharing you retain a certain amount of control. You know who they are with, what they are doing, even when they will return. It's best to start down this path very slowly though. Research and enter an agreement with your partner. Make sure to have conditions you are comfortable with. As I said before spouse sharing isn't everyone's cup of tea. "Where can I find someone that will fuck him?" If you have made the decision to share and are comfortable with all of the feelings surrounding it there are a plethora of places in which to locate a willing participant. You can look on line at websites like Fetlife and Adult Friend Finder. Or you can Google swinger clubs and visit one of your choice. Refrain from inviting a friend, co-worker, or anyone else you may know with mutual acquaintances. Due to the social stigma surrounding this form of lifestyle you don't want to deal with issues that can be avoided.
I think it's weird. Why don't you just respect him and find something interesting to do with him? And if you get those fantasies you just put them away.
