The truth about women's orgasms, a lie?

You must tell your partner the best way to stimulate sexually and guide him to do that. Communication is the best way for you to enjoy sex.

 

You know, you and I have disagreed on a number of topics so far(haha), but THIS I actually agree with you on.

I know for a fact that there are women who actually don't let their partners stimulate them to the point of orgasm. This could be due to a number of possibilities, but one that I know about is out of fear. Some women can be scared of orgasms and it doesn't matter how much their partners try to improve the situation. Unless the women themselves don't get their shit together somehow, and show that they are making an effort to rectify their issues, there's only so much their partners can do for them.

I will say I'm personally a little bit reluctant to use the word "fault", but when you get to the bottom of it, it does ultimately become the woman's fault if she never does anything to improve her situation. I think it's good to be considerate in terms of her feelings and fears and all that stuff, but that isn't to say that she can stay inside the safe bubble for the rest of her life while others practically baby her saying shit like "ooohhh, it's oaky, take all the time you need." Patience is a required thing, but so is a slight kick in the ass - not in a literal sense, of course - if she's taking everyone's sympathetic approach for granted.

 

I agree to a great extent. It works both ways.

 

As long as they enjoy it and it feels good doesn't mean they shouldn't do it because they didn't reach a happy ending. Sometimes I don't cum when my wife gives me a blowjob (and she is really good at it) but that doesn't mean I didn't enjoy her attempt - they are all awesome. My wife still has never orgasmed during sex but I feel that we are closer than ever at achieving that.

 

Oh we exist! But we don’t wear it on our sleeves like boys do!!

 

so where do you wear it? if you're really seeking something, you're usually not doing yourself any favors by keeping the search a secret.

 

Why are you using a fake avatar?

 

Why are you??? Lol

 

Yeah, but they wont actually think I am a Gorilla

You use an avatar like that, I assume thats either an instagram model or porn star, everyone is going to think you are a guy pretending to be a girl

 

well even average sex is good but maybe not as good as it could be. Great sex is orgasm and orgasm is hard to achieve from what I know of orgasms.

An orgasm isn't something you can fake. its either an orgasm or it isn't.

 

Well it’s neither but I changed it after realizing no one else shows their face. I didn’t realize that was this site’s “unwritten rule”. Anyways, you and everyone else are entitled to your opinion. You can’t prove to me you’re not a gorilla, and I doubt you care to.... so why should I??

 

So you are saying that was your face

 

My wife always has an orgasm, but there is a lot going on other than penetration: oral on her, fingering, loving on her tits, oral on me, kissing, talking, and finally, screwing.

 

lol oh dear Women are not that different to men in regards to desire unless of course they've had a life of trauma which is pretty much who it appears to be to me. Women can and do enjoy sex like men if the guys is willing to do enough foreplay to get her there. That's the problem most men aren't willing or just aren't able to get her to that place for whatever reason. If you get her aroused and provide the right stimulation oh yeah she like it alright.