Speaking Of In-Laws, Girlfriend And Boyfriend`s Parents...

How do you get along with them? Do they accept you being their family member`s mate, or do they wish you would disappear?

 

i usually don't get along with them and they don't seem to like me because i'm quite. they usually do things things to the girl that fuel my desire to became a police officer to throw their asses in jail.

 

Ahhhh the inlaws. I don't think I've ever really gotten along with a bf's mum before. My boyfriends dad is really sweet. His mum can be pretty harsh though.... she always says the harshest shit to make me feel bad... like the other day, we were at her house watching tv. There was this hardcore african tribal voodooo guy on tv and just joking around (because my boyfriend's half black) I was like, "isn't that your uncle eddie?" Totally just joking, right. We always says dumb shit like that. And then she rudely asked me if I was racist. Like.... ????? Are you serious. Ya,I'm racisit. That's why I had a child with your son.
Ugh.... She's so mean to me. She also didn't even by her granddaughter a christmas present.
I think it's normal for guys mum's to hate girlfriends cause they probasnly resent the fact that we're the boys main female figure now.

 

my bf's mother is okay... she lets us stay in his room with the door closed (nice privacy if other 15 year olds know what i mean) but when im trying to reach him over th ehpone she hates it because we talk for like 2 hours... and well.. his dad is cool and funny.

my parents are real freaks.. my mother hasnt met him but she has farted on the phone - RIGHT in the middle of our romantic convos!! aarghhh!- and has burped and sworn and everything you can imagine.. my step dad has met him and is pretty cool with him.. but on the surface.. he plays it really tough.

and.. yeah.

 

Perhaps I've been lucky, because every boyfriend I've ever had, had wonderful parents. My last serious boyfriend and I actually lived with his parents for a bit when we were in a transition period and they were awesome. I still keep in touch with his mother even though we are no longer together.

 

my parents love my boyfriend, but his parents hate me.

they are really strict and pushy. That doesn't fare too well with a hippie in the house. They hounded him all the time about his clothes and music taste. Then I came along and encouraged him. We had been dating for about a month when they gave him an ultimatum. Live by all their rules (including not seeing me, cutting his hair, throwing out his music, his clothes, and driving him to school) or get out. So he left. That night (Halloween 2002) we drank to celebrate his freedom. I got in trouble for drinking and I just left for no reason. We lived in my car for a while and then got an apartment with the money we saved. We never went back home. his parents hate me so much because they think he would have if I hadn't have left and encouraged him.

They still expect him to move home. They're civil to me now, but the dislike is still there. I get wierd vibes every time I go over.

 

My significant other's parents actually like me a lot, I think. His mom loves me to death and always asks to talk to me on the phone. Sometimes I'll go over to his parents' house without my S.O. and help her with her horses. His dad is kinda quiet, but he gets into these moods when he's absolutely HILARIOUS! He's really intimadating to me, but I don't let him know that. I like to joke around with him and i think he likes it. I think my S.O.'s mom just likes having a girl around once in awhile because she has a husband and two sons...poor, poor woman! *laughs* I think I get along with his parents better than my own family...

Generally I get along with parents really well, I've never really had any problems. I don't know...I often wonder what goes wrong in terms of in-laws...*shrugs*

 

My ex-bf's (I was with him for over two years) mother is such a wonderful person and we got along so well. We still do actually and even tho me and him broke up a long long time ago, she still sometimes calls me and asks how I'm doing and during xmas holiday when I was back in Finland, she invited me over. She's just great. She would have been the best mother-in-law ever..