Ok, this is the deal. I have to leave my house in less than 30 min, but I really need some advice. I'm supposed to go to my boyfriend's house today for the first time. He says that he loves me very much ( I am not so sure, we have only known eachother for less than a month, but I have felt a really deep connection with someone very quickly as well). So, I don't know if he is sincere or not. That's not really the issue. That might be what's making me nervous, but I just feel a sense of danger. I mean, I am driving to his house and his mom is supposed to be home, but I still feel kinda in danger. I woke up with my throat and my stomach hurting. Does my body know something that I do not? Am I just being paranoid? Please help me.
it's true you should go with that sixth sense. Is it a long drive? Maybe you should have someone pick you up or drop you off. And make sure someone is there with you guys. Or to be safe, tell him you'll take a rain check because you're sick.
Its about a 25 mile drive. I'm definantly taking my car, but I can think of a million and one things that could happen whether I drove or not. I've got to go to school and take a math test, so I can't just tell him that I am staying in the bed. He got sooo upset last time I made up some excuse not to come over. I don't want to lie either, but I really don't want to go over there. He has never given me a reason for me to feel this way. He doesn't touch me inappropriatly even when we are alone, but I can't get this feeling of danger away from me.
I don't know. I'd come up with something. Maybe you should tell him the truth and say you think somethng bad will happen. Can he come visit you?
I feel awful because I lied to him. I told him that I was going to the doctor. Of course, I didn't go. I hardly ever lie and I feel terrible about it. I need a psychic. I don't know about him.
be honest and tell him you dont want to come over because youre not comfortable yet. if he's a good guy and really does like you, he'll understand(maybe not like it) and be patient, if not, then its a good way to cut to the chase.
