What is it with all the "he/she LETS ME" SHIT.

We are all individuals we don't own each other. If one must ask permission there is somethimg seriously fucked up. Why not, "I feel like this or that, what do you think dear?" I'd love your comments.

 

Dunno if you're married, but if you are, wouldn't you rather have your wife ask, "is it ok if I fuck other guys?" rather that just telling you, "I'm going to fuck other guys."

Sure we're all individuals, but sometimes doing things without permission has consequences.

 

I would probably ask my wife: "Do you mind if we do butt stuff?" Or: "Do you mind peeing on me?"
Both of which she has respectfully declined

 

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No. I mean discuss situations, needs and wants. Get to know each other. I just have never understood the permission thing. My girl and I know our parameters and would never step beyond without discussing and feeling each other out on each issue.

 

Basically, if anything requires me to leave the house or spend money I ask my wife’s permission. My wife likes and expects that. I’ve probably not pushed back due to a disordered sexual perversion on my part. But oh well.

 

Sorry, I know this is supposed a judgement free site, but for people in a serious committed relationship, that is the stupidest shit I've ever heard. I don't own my wife. She doesn't own me. However, we have a deep respect for each other and value the other's opinions and input. Anything short of open communications is pretty much the same thing as cheating. If this is your thing then just realize turn around is fair play and your partner won't likely be open and honest with you either.