So last night i was stranded at a far away bus station at 12:30am and my father hung up on me claiming he has work and shouldn't bother with me. So it took me maybe one hour and a half to walk home in the cold, half-stoned half-burnt out. Damn him and damn "fathers" i say!
awww...thats shitty...im glad my dads not like that....my mom on the other hand...thats exactly what she would do
... I've noticed that a few other people on the forums hold similar thoughts on that...including myself, so I know that it sucks. I'm sorry, raf.
That's shitty just to dump on your dad like that. How'd you end up at the bus station? Was it something that could have been avoided by common sense on your part? Hour and a half walk? Sounds easy. Hmmm...let me guess, he probably pays for your food, shelter, and other needs. Damn him indeed. That's pretty unfair to say those things without explaining why you were stranded at a bus station. If it was your OWN fault, then you need to walk home in the cold. It's called responsibility.
ah don't hate yer pappy. if he was half stoned then he probably didn't quite have his head....think of it this way... my father is eternally stoned i suppose, well he can't really even get a high any more, he's like immune to it.....but i love him more than anyone. people make mistakes and act like jerks sometimes.....but... try to forgive and forget..dumb as it sounds..
Mothers seem to be more of a pain in the ass Fathers too Parents altogether... especially since they put too much faith in the obvious Stoopid shite.
Either you know much more about the situation than was posted, or you completely misread the entire entry. SHE was half-stoned and burnt-out, while her father had to WORK. If she got herself into that situation, then she should be an adult and get herself out. It's downright disrespectful and asinine to bitch at a parent, especially for WORKING , assumedly, to support the family. It's so easy for people to lay blame for a bad situation on someone else. It usually seems that parents unwittingly become the target of this mis-aimed blame. Why? Because the person who fucked-up does not want to take responsibility for themselves and have no sense of accountability. You want to do drugs and party? Fine. That's a personal choice. I'm surely not criticizing that, because that would make me a hypocrite. However, along with the ability to make your own choices you accept the consequences of your own actions. As far as I can see the father here was just taking care of his responsibilities. If she still wants to be treated as a baby and have someone else take care of everything for her, then she should submit to everything her parents tell her. Some people want the freedom to do as they wish and live their own lives. Yet, when they screw up while making their own choices, they blame someone else for their misfortunes. That's using someone who has supported you, raised you, and is trying to be a parent, as a scapegoat. And that's just sad. Parents have hard jobs. And to say that you hate your father because he's being responsible? Even worse. Hopefully you'll see what I'm talking about once you get another 10 years under your belt.
I'm with philly on this one, you can't expect your parents to be your personal chaffuer (sp?), get over it. A bit of suffering never hurt anyone.
*shrugs* I'm going to california with an aching in my heart, someone told me there's a girl out there with love in her eyes and flowers in her hair.
that's a pretty lame ass reason to hate your father. Your profile says you're 18, you're a big girl now, and you shouldn't expect daddy to come get you even when you know he's gotta go to work the next day to support you. Wait until your parents try to do some stupid shit....like burn down your house or beat you....then you can hate them all you want.
heh... I have more of a reason to hate mine... like my mom throwing telephones and hairbrushes and breaking them on my head and having to carry my dad home from a bar when he was drunk and stole my grandmother's pills and having to stay up for 24 hours longer than normal keeping an eye on him after he tried to attack his mother and having to hold him up when he needs to take a piss and have him try to punch me and tell me to get away while he pisses on me. Then I had to clean up the blood after he knocked himself into a coma by tripping over the coffeetable and falling on top of me while I was trying to walk him back to the couch....
I don't blame ya Dad for making you walk, just by the fact that you expect at any time to be picked it wasn't an emergency you should of been more organised & more responsible
I think you have to take steps to be prepared if certain things come up if I hadn't I would of bleed to death on the side of the road after brake failure caused my car accident, & knowledge gained enabled me to crash in the safest way which sounds strange but if I didn't have that knowledge I would of gone straight over the edge & down the hill which would of killed me. I had a cell phone & what everyone should have if they own a car a first aid kit, so if the cellphone didn't work I could of made it to the nearest facility or main road, I always keep water & some food in the car when I go out. I guess the blanket covering the back seats could of helped me some way too. I mean people have made it through worse you just got to think be prepared also parents are the greatest assest as they most likely have been through same similar knew someone or know someone who can help you. I just think a lot of young people give their parents a hard time & forget everything thats been done for them. I'm always grateful to my Mum & Dad as well as the rest of the familly for everything they have done fo me.
