Ladies, would you date unemployed?

Lock her u-

Shit, wrong forum.

 

I worded it that way because I am not sure how long this transition state will last.

To be honest, I wrote the opening post while feeling down on myself, and sleepy. Hence the crappy grammar in the thread title

 

I understand, bro. Keep your head up, and continue to be vigilant about pursuing more employment. You'll get another job, and a good one at that.

 

What if the guy doesn't do a nine-to-five but works hard at something for which there is little financial gain.

 

I think the main thing is staying productive even if you're not getting paid. In my experience women seem to be impressed with men who wash the dishes.

 

Indeed. When someone is at their lowest, their misery shines through and becomes noticed by all. It’s a confidence inhibitor.

 

Good advice. I colored this avatar myself

 

Nothing sexier than her policies

 

It would depend on the situ.If the guy was a habitual job changer,or was'nt actively seeking work,then no I would'nt.As I work hard,I'd expect the guy to be on the same level.I'm not a guys mother/keeper.I would look for someone hardworking,reliable and someone I could look up to and respect.

 

Forget about dating. Think about friendship first.
If the other person thinks that dating, dining, etc., IS the basis of freindship, forget it. Move on.

 

No.

I met a guy (2-3 years ago) and we hit it off. Only problem he didn’t work. It was a red flag and I told him so. He had full custody of his daughter, mom lived with him. We had great conversation, easy to talk to...but I wasn’t having it.

He would message me during the day: wyd

I wanted to respond WTF do you think I am doing???? At work.

Over the years he has had a job here or there.

Recently he was complaining he had no money. I suggested applying where my son works. His words: I am not going to be a server.

Damn. Guess you don’t need $$. I was very turned off by that.