The Alpha Male Has Sex With All The Girls- Thats F***ed Up

Alpha isn't synonymous with asshole. In fact, guys who are players and treat women badly, usually are insecure and pretend to be alphas. I've dated many assholes who were wanna be alphas and then dated a few legit alphas (married one) and the difference is that they don't pretend to be something they're not just to get laid. And nice guys aren't synonymous with doormat. I think guys sometimes think women either want a bad guy or a doormat. I can't speak for all women but for me, a man who is masculine, confident but humble and treats women right is an amazing combination. Not hard to find if you're not busy wasting time on pretend alphas.

 

Women are attracted to all types of men, not just alpha males. I've seen uniquely matched couples, and it just boils down to what makes THAT woman feel happy about being with THAT man. Some guys get so pissed because they get rejected numerous times, and wonder what is wrong with themselves and go into this fury of frustration and questioning of their social status and shit. Fact is, not every woman will be attracted to you, or wants to be bothered by you-get over it and move on.

 

Nature has to keep it confusing in the hope that stupid people (particularly literalists) won't mate. Unfortunately, Nature is a loser in that regard.

 

They would rather have a guy with a nic like 'evilmickslade' than a guy with a nic like neon spectral toast because that nic suggests that you've just given up and descended into random weirdness. It's all curable, though.

Peop;e with nics like evil mick slade aren't really evil - they're just being arch which suggests they have a developed sense of irony and possibly a really cute grin

 

Yeah, "evil" is so attractive

 

riceguy/niceguy?

riceguy sounds more like a racial slur about chinese people than an alternate name for a nice guy.

 

ah, i figured it might be something like that. i tried to google it, but google was convinced i was trying to input a URL and kept telling me the site doesn't exist. so there's one argument for alternative search engines.

 

now you're making me want to join.

 

You have a rice guy? Like, he exclusively sells rice?

 

You know what's implied.

 

you'd be surprised how many people eat rice in Quebec and Wisconsin - some of them are magyars

 

The men women date when young may be quite different from the men they marry - keep that in mind during the discussion

 

I am an alpha male and not an asshole. Most of the 30 women I had sex with liked me because I am alpha and some of their boyfriends or husbands were not. I cuckolded one husband for 25 years and shared a girlfriend with my wife for most of our 45 years of marriage. I even had other girlfriends despite having two at home waiting for me. I like all the girls and have had more than one girlfriend at a time since I was 11 years old.

It is human to view the guy who bested us as a bad person. Make us feel better about ourselves. You cannot paint a big segment of the male population with the same brush. Genetically women are attracted to alpha men because we are all here as a result of an ancestor having babies with an alpha male who could protect and provide for her during ancient times when there were no supermarkets, police or military. Beta males did not pass their genes along as successfully as alpha males did until recent times when a man was not needed for anything but breeding. So you are fighting nature but I understand your frustration being born beta. I cannot imagine not being alpha.

 

When I see a post like this I wonder if the person really means "I can't have porn-style sex with a, super model."

It's not hard to get yourself laid as long as you're not pathetic. If you're being nice is currency, and you expect to be repaid with sexy-time then the reality is: you're not being a NiceGuy. You're being an asshole.

Now for some coaching: work on making yourself more attractive. Not just your looks, but your person too. Also, don't focus on the women you want; rather focus on the women who are attracted to you. And for goodness sakes, treat them like people, not like a wet hole for your masturbation fantasies.

 

yeah, but as soon as you start to give them attention they lose interest.

 

you could rip what I say apart but it would only be with opinions not facts.
everything I stated is not my opinion based on experience but actual results from decades worth of studies where the results were then
turned into the text books that are used when a person gets a psychology degree.
do a quick google search and you will see that everything I have said has been considered scientific fact since well before Sigmund Freud
excuse the late response I haven't been on this site in a while.
thanks and enjoy your day.
and i'm not saying that to be a dick I do hope you enjoy your day