My Wife Says Women Don't Really Like Bj's

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by ggib111, Dec 26, 2014.

  1. Scratched

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    All Genders? I only thought there were two...oh well, yes it could go the other way as well. I was looking at it from my perspective. Like everyone else does.

    Game is open to all players.
     
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  2. drumminmama

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    Gender is the identity. Sex is the equipment.

    My daughter is trans, so I tend to think of the folks on that road.
    And I have some IS friends, both real time and online.
     
  3. Scratched

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    Whatever works for y'all.

    Do ya thing...
     
  4. GillyGal

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    I had to 'learn' to love BJs. When I was younger and just starting out I didn't really like giving BJs. What turned me around was porn actually - watching some amateur BJ stuff and seeing how women worshipped cock and got so turned on sucking was a light bulb moment for me. I also find really enjoying the teasing and early stages gets me in the mood. I love a cock gently slapping me on the face, licking my lips in anticipation and that kind of thing. For me it's the full experience not just the quick bob up and down
     
  5. sickgirl

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    I used to be repulsed at the idea of swallowing cum. I never ever did it. Then I met my Master/boyfriend. He forced me to do it and now I do it willingly! I give him deep blowjobs on demand and swallow his cum. It turns him on to no end! It makes me feel very happy that my Dom is satisfied sexually by me. I'm his proud sex slave! I genuinely want to please him....and I make sure I do. It's not all about me, although he does a fantastic job of fulfilling my sick fantasies and sexual desires haha!
     
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    I used to be repulsed at the idea of swallowing cum. I never ever did it. Then I met my Master/boyfriend. He forced me to do it and now I do it willingly! I give him deep blowjobs on demand and swallow his cum. It turns him on to no end! It makes me feel very happy that my Dom is satisfied sexually by me. I'm his proud sex slave! I genuinely want to please him....and I make sure I do. It's not all about me, although he does a fantastic job of fulfilling my sick fantasies and sexual desires haha!
     
  7. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Probably the oldest joke in the English language ;)


    (well hindu-arabic, then germanic languages for anyone thats going to be that guy and be annoyingly technical)
     
  8. Noserider

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    He forced you to do it?
     
  9. sickgirl

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    Well, I'm his sub and volunteered to be his sex slave, so I really consented to it.. It turns me on to be told what to do sexually...I like to be ordered around and dominated.
     
  10. Irminsul

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    Never read so much bullshit in my life, this morning.
     
  11. sickgirl

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    You MUST be kidding me. I live in one of the most liberal cities in the world, and this lifestyle is not so uncommon here. I'm NOT bullshitting; I'm extremely honest, in fact. I guess your not used to that....
     
  12. Irminsul

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    Where you live isn't the foundations of what I thought was BS, nor what you may do. It's the whole blahzay "well it doesn't even matter if I do or do not like it, I have give bjs because my master told me so".

    That's not a proper relationship, especially in that aspect of bdsm. That's an abusive master. Maybe I read it wrong, maybe you worded it wrong, but all I took away from that is your "master" abuser would disregard your feelings and limits to to satisfy only his needs and I have no doubts that if you were to go and post this stuff on a genuine bdsm forum, they would tell you the same thing.

    No matter how much control a master may look to be in, you are in more control as a sub. That's doing it right. That's a genuine portrait of a master/sub relationship. When you read it, that's what they were referring too.

    Your man sounds like he watches too much porn and thinks that guys just get to do what they want to do. Porn is scripted etc. And even if you're into it, telling a forum it wouldn't matter anyway because it's expected lol, c'mon man.
     
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  13. sickgirl

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    My Master never watches porn, actually! I enjoy the fantasy of being "forced" to give blowjobs and to swallow afterwards..He doesn't actually force me to do anything I don't want to do. He mentioned a few things that I said no to, and nothing else was said about it. I'm not being abused at all..He respects my limits, and we use a safe word. All is well.
     
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  14. Noserider

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    Irmi gets it.
     
  15. Eric!

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    Hey, this is what works for you, and as long as there's a mutual understanding between you and your master, your arrangement is just fine.
     
  16. Friendly10

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    My ex loved it she wanted it every day. But I dated a girl who said she hated it an not going to do it.
    The girl I'm dating now didn't it was only part of foreplay but now she likes it an sucks me a couple of times a week an has started swallowing
     
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    My bf, now my husband, never forced me to swallow his cum. I have been giving him bj regularly. He knew that swallowing cum was not a welcome idea. One day his cum slipped through my throat. It was exciting for both of us. Next time I did it intentionally and swallowed willingly. Now I do it very often, especially during my periods.
     
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  18. Addicted2MEN

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    Men love giving head.
     
  19. Slutty Sue

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    Well well. I couldn't go a day without give my hubby a blowjob. Just love doing it, love it when he cums & love swallowing.
     
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  20. LowHangers

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    Well, my first wife while dating and married before children couldn't seem to suck my cock enough. She wanted it in her mouth every time we had sex, she never swallowed and always preferred I don't cum in her mouth. After a couple babies she just slid my dick in and out of her mouth to get it hard so she could get what she wanted so I guess she never really did enjoy doing it and it's a shame because she was good at it. After 28 years she wanted a divorce, so be it. I start dating again at 48 and the few women I dated loved sucking cock and swallowed every bit of my cum. I married again and she loves sucking my cock, doesn't care much for swallowing my cum but does enjoy me shooting my load in her mouth as she continues to suck away on it. She slobbers it all over which is ok with me. Some enjoy it and some don't. IMO, if you're going to suck on it, you best allow it to cum in your mouth. It's called finishing the job...swallowing is optional.
     

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