A Question for all Nudist Husbands.

I think if someone is to become a nudist simply to gaze at the human form in the nude to build sexual desire, they have chosen the wrong lifestyle choice. I think that if I were to catch someone staring or leering at my wife, I would only approach the individual if it made my wife uncomfortable.

As a husband, if I notice that someone be it male of female is looking at my wife be it nude or clothed I will wonder what has caught the persons attention. Often times if I put myself in the other persons shoes, I could simply be deep in thought, but my gaze is directed to something that has nothing to do with what I see. Other times, I will wonder if not deep in thought, then what has caught the persons focus.

My wife is a very stunning Irish lass, with a quick wit and a sharp tongue. We practice nudism because we enjoy living our lives and doing things we enjoy with out clothes every chance we get. To take the time to worry what others think of our bodies would take the enjoyment out of the activity.

 

I think whatever reason you have for becoming a nudist, or naturist, it is your own business. There are many reasons we became naturists and some of them are considered "incorrect", but if no one knows and we behave ourselves, who is to be concernedk?

In all our years, no one has been offended by our nudity, or posture, so it not an issue, if I want to look and fantasise about someone's body, so what? I hope, indeed think people do look at me and do the same and it is flattering to think that others find my body attractive.

 

I dunno. Why not?

 

Being completely honest I think my wife is very sexy and I love her body and it makes me proud when other people comment about her nudity and see the hunger or jelousy in their eyes . We have also been lucky enough to have a very varied sex life and I find it very arousing watching her with other people both women and men as she is bi .

 

Hippies have been anarchists all along, and now that the internet lets people be anonymous, a fair number of guys just unleash their inner idiot. It's what they do best.

If anyone actually has a serious interest in nudism, there are other places to talk about it, but they tend to be pretty dull.

 

As has been pointed out, I do not own her.
If she is nude it is because she wants to be.
There is no shame in being nude in front of others.

 

My wife and I are members of nude resort and attend nearly every day. We are both comfortable around other nudists. When you realize that casual nudity doesnt mean sex you find yourself comfortable around others. We are both comfortable with being nude and being seen nude by others. We can also be comfortable giving hugs to others as normally as being clothed. You must get the mindset that it isnt sexual and accept yours and others bodies to be comfortable in the nude world.

 

that's the perfect answer

 

I'm not going to get caught up in all the second guessing that's going on here. Instead I'll just answer the question.

"Why are you willing for other men to see your wife naked?"

Because, for us, that is the object: for her to be looked at nude. Being nude in a social setting has been sexual since we started. It's what we decided and agreed to do, and we are quite happy with it.

We also realize that other "purist" nudists do not accept what we do or that we are true nudists. It's not everybody's "cup of tea," but it is ours. As far as we are concerned, that's their problem; we make no apologies.

We aren't swingers and I don't think you could even call what we do soft swinging. I won't go into what we do here, but we play games with a goal that we both find sexually exciting. No big deal really.

 

My wife does go to nudist beaches with me, but isn't as keen as I am and is still a little self conscious, however, it is very much her body, so not for me to say whether she should or shouldn't be naked when others can see her. Especially when she doesn't tell me what I should do in this regard.

A previous girlfriend was far more liberal when it came to nudity and didn't care less who got to see her naked.

 

Well, it's partially the anonymity and the lack of being accountable for your words or actions on the Internet, like you would be in talking to someone in person, and, the Beavis and Butthead mentally types would DEFINATELY be attracted to the thought of talking to, and interacting with people who could very well be naked at the time ( Lke I am, at the moment )
Or something like that. I enjoy talking to nudists who very well be naked, but for different reasons. However, not everyone has the level of maturity, or maybe the experience in social nudity that some of us have had.
Dunno if this is what you were asking.

 

Having read all posts, I decided to share what once my gf faced. She takes off her dress quite often when alone at home. After marriage she wanted to continue it, and also wished to see her husband clothless. He was not. My friend expressed with me her disappointment many time. Once her husband told her that they would be participating in new year party at friend's house. Joyfully she accompanied with him.
After about half an hour her husband left the party saying that he would be back soon. My friend told that gradually all guest took off their clothes: she was the only one in dress. The wife of host suggested her to join the party like others (in nude). She refused but other guests repeatedly advised her to do so. She confessed that it was exciting, so she first removed shirt and jeans. The guests appreciated which led her to remove bra and pantie. She was totally naked. With mixed feelings she started talking to others, and sooner forgot that she was nude. Her husband turned up when the party was about to wind up. He saw his wife waiting but did not comment further except " you must be satisfied".

My friend got divorce from husband considering that he knew about nude party, left her there intentionally, and that he himself avoid the gathering. Now she is happy nudist with close friends (like me).

 

I agree to your conclusion.
In my friend's case, it was clear to both of us that her husband was a bit coward, but at the same time trying to respect his wife's nude inclination, without entering himself. Whatever the reason, he shouldn't have left his wife in party which caused confusion, agony and ill-feelings about husband. Taking off clothes and staying naked was in fact her reaction and "revenge" which ultimately ended up in separation. The guy should have stayed nude with wife initially at home, followed by inviting one or two nudist couples, or arranged an invitation from such friends. It would have inculcate confidence and trust in wife, and also getting her prepared for nude parties, which she was willing to join. But not in this way.

 

I am also of the opinion that husband should have told his wife (my gf) where were they going. She expressed later that in that case she would accompany him. Since she was kept in dark, therefore, not only she exhibited his body but also later got divorce from him.