Is It Weird If I Don't Care About 'getting Off'?

Something i've noticed in recent years is that regardless of whether i'm 'by myself' or with someone else i don't really care about getting myself off. I always prefer getting the girl off and i don't tend to care if i don't cum

In fact there are time where i don't want to be pleasured at all i just want to pleasure the girl; i've always got more pleasure from the 'build up' compared to the actual climax. I'm the only guy i know that does this - does that make me wierd?

Should point out that i'm not asexual, i just don't really wanna get myself off...

 

that is weird- next your going to say you hate drinking which is even worse

 

my guess is hormone imbalance, childhood trauma, or alien abduction.

maybe you are not the you you think you are.

 

not that unusual, people here claim it all the time. usually either just before or just after mentioning their 8.5 inch penis.

 

I had an ex that identified more lesbian and had a hard time having sex after we broke up. She loved for me to cone over and eat her and i was happy for that.

Had another relationship where i would serve the others wishes sexually and get off by my self later thinking about being a sex object

 

Said every guy, ever.

 

Yes it's weird.

 

It seems more common for women to not care about getting off. So it can be said it is weird in the sense most men do care. But there are weirder things.

 

I've only had sex 3 times so i'm not sure what you mean by "what do you get from sex". For me 'sexy time' is all about the girl. I get off on the girl getting off. TBH when solo i actually don't paly with myself that much - something i've never really done

 

Well i also don't drink, but that's due to having depression for 3 years so ...