Right as long as it's purely sexual, no problem. Just pretend the guys dick is the dildo, and the real thing beats a piece of rubber or plastic. Careful picking the guy.
I wouldn't mind later on down the track but what do you mean by my boyfriend enjoying him? LOL. He says I can do my thing in private but is no way interested in joining or watching. Yeah that's the best way, we say one will be for sex and the other for love. I don't think I'm quite ready yet since I still consider myself immature and don't trust myself, although hopefully by the end of the year I will experience my first big one
Well my current gf said some of previous ex's used to think she had quite a big vagina, whereas I feel she is tight to me. We laugh about this as we know it's because my size is far larger than her ex's and they clearly weren't 'man' enough for her.
Have you tried experimenting with some anal play? We discovered after almost forty years of marriage that my wife has a very sensitive anus, she has never wanted to try anything in it, but while on vacation a few years back and having bought a new vibrator she out of the blue wanted the vibrator pulled out of her pussy and put in her rectum and my cock in her pussy. She was really excited and enjoyed it very much and kept asking if I could feel the pulsing vibrations through the thin membrane separating the two areas. I had to tell her when we were done and I had recovered the ability to make intelligent sounds again that I hadn't set the vibrator to the pulse mode, it was still on constant. What she was feeling was my cock pulsing. We haven't had the chance to try it again, but she has entertained thoughts of swapping the two in positions, if she can take me instead of the smaller vibrator, I'm getting hard just thinking of the possibility.