Hi all was wondering if some of you may have advice. I'm finished with my ex girlfriend/mother of my child 3 years. I'm completely over her really I am I do not love her. Yet I cannot stop thinking dirty thoughts and sexual images when I speak to her and when I see her the odd time if I joke around etc she would joke back but I'm just wondering is this normal or am I just crazy ... I'm happy with my current partner and she has a boyfriend who I get on well with.. Is it normal to think of exs like that I know people might say ah I'm still in love but I really am not sometimes I really dislike her. It's just a sex thing??? Help
Yeah exactly well that's the case for me dunno about her... I think if the sex not about nice fun times together just the sex... I just wanna forget it
Have more sex, but not with her...passage in time, we all have them, you will grow out of it! We all do. Remember your worst moment with her, when you think of the sex, think of that, you will soon get over it! Lol
You don't get it yet, but you are pretty much marked for life now. Everyone is going to wonder why you walked out of the child's life so fast
I never walked out of my child's life I have a fantastic relationship with him always have always will she doesn't try stop that
We have had a hard time getting on in passed and she never has before I don't think she would to be honest
I get on great with her new boyfriend and her like... I just need to stop getting into the dirty flirty chats with her that sometimes she says stop to me when she has started it ... Confusing.... Can't see a situation tho wer we would have sex like. It's jus a thought that turns me bonkers
Mmmmmm hmmmm. OP gets on with her boyfriend. But trouble will start when he turns up to visit with his new girlfriend
exactly what i was thinking....it happened with my son and his x...he soon went off the idea of having sex with her :b0230: