There you go with the Label thing again. You just can't get out of that box. Pleas throw away that cookie-cutter.
Descriptions...adjectives...and yes labels. I have labels. I am a woman, mother, sister, daughter, hippie, old, straight, caucasion, American...
DieselGirl your statement almost made me cry. I wish there were more understanding women out there who think like you do. I got into oral sex only with men after a very bad breakup with an ex-girlfriend. I wasn't being destructive but needed something to get my heart off of my ex and joined Lavalife (intimate) and met a MF couple where the man wanted to give head on the first meeting and on the 2nd I decided to try him out (you only live once). I also thought if I am going to ask a woman I am with to suck me off I should know what I am asking her to do. I am married now and I was up front with my wife about my 9 times in total that I have sucked cock so that she might understand how important it is to me. Now married 10 years she has sucked me for a few minutes maybe 8 times in 15 years in total since we first met but she has never sucked me off to swallowing and I can't keep my mind off receiving a blowjob and now it has infected my dreams where now I am breaking my vows just to get a blowjob (and give again too). I wish my wife would think about letting me getting at least a blowjob from another guy and not break my vows to love and cherish her.
Oh, marriage, and all those chains we love... oh, the blessed solace of a life companion to chase away loneliness and freedom and sanity remaining... to know there will always be someone there is surely worth the mutual suffocation incurred. Life is a lot less complicated when love is love and lust is lust. Lust devalues love and love interferes with lust. They can't be combined without creating a lot of problems in your life. For love is a pure thing and lust is a primal thing. To combine the pure and the primal is to frustrate both. And you will really feel that frustration in your life!
I would love to have my friend give me Oral I just know if he ever came over i wouldnt dissapoint him
Ok this is going to be a long post but here goes. Due an accident that caused nerve damage I can't get an erection and haven't been able to for almost 5 years.(no Viagra doesn't work for me) I can still orgasm but never get hard. This has obviously put a kink in my relationships with women. I'm still fairly young (34) and have a strong sex drive.When I was a younger I did some experimenting, including giving head to another guy,which I enjoyed. So basically that's become my primary sexual outlet. I have a couple of friends that I blow regularly. They're both married, but their wives simply don't like doing it.It works out for all of us. They get the blowjobs they want without going out and finding another woman, which could lead to unnecessary complications. I get to experience a type of sexual intimacy that I probably wouldn't get otherwise. And yes I will often orgasm while "performing" without even touching myself.(believe me that's a lot better than wiggling my flacid penis for an hour just to get a quick,unsatisfying nut.) Now some people might ask, if giving oral sex gets me off, why don't I go down on women? Well I tried that and it didn't work out. Eventually women are going to want intercourse and that's lead to some awkward and humiliating moments in the past. With my buddies, they know my situation and don't judge. Even if I could do more they don't want to go any farther anyway. I've gotten damn good at oral and both my friends say it's the best they had. I would consider myself bisexual (because I can orgasm while blowing other guys obviously) but my friends are both straight. In fact they often watch straight porn while we do this. I suppose most people would consider this cheating but it's actually helped both they're marriages as getting oral from their wives isn't such an issue anymore. I know our situation is unique but still I think if you've got a friend who wants to blow you and you want the blowjob then give it a try. As long as 1.neither of you starts to read more into it and 2. It won't make the friendship awkward or uncomfortable because no blowjob is worth losing a good friend
Me too al. Just another like-minded man for the extra bit of hand relief or oral sex when all you want is some fun with cocks. There are many times when all I need is a good handjob and wouldn't it be nice to have somebody else on hand (pun intended!) to help out every now and then? And if you can get the numbers of his friends too then there's sure to be one of them available in times of need. Great post al; short and to the point!
Bisexual lust. Just looking at a naked man makes me so horny. I want to touch his penis, want my face up close to it, want to kiss it and watch it growing with sexual arousal. Kneeling in front of him, I am naked too, my erect penis sticking straight out and throbbing with lust, my hands move over his thighs towards his sex. Now my fingers gently caress his warm penis, moving the skin up and down the hardening shaft as I watch the purple head glistening in front of my face. "Ah yes" he sighs as he reaches full erection. Holding the shaft in finger and thumb, I open my mouth and my tongue touches his lovely glans, exploring its shape, sliding around, tasting his precum. My lips now slip over that delicious cock head, gently sucking and feeling the hardness, his sexual excitement as I pleasure him. Soon his hips begin to move. My hands hold his ass as he begins his sexual thrusting, slowly fucking my mouth, his whole penis sliding in and out through my tight sucking lips. We both abandon ourselves to the sexual pleasure, his eyes are closed as he thrusts away and I can hear his quiet sighs. My penis sticks up throbbing and a string of precum is oozing out from the slit ( I will masturbate later ). I hold the cheeks of his ass as he fucks me, now going faster as he approaches his climax, his cock is big and hard on my mouth, I can feel the build up... Then, with a gasp he lets it go. His penis jerks and pumps in my mouth, I feel the hot sperm ejaculating, tasting his fluids, feeling the thrusts and the trembling pleasure of his sweet orgasm... That's my bisexual lust!
If all you want is a mouth to masturbate in, then it's no indication of sexual orientation. When you can look at a hot guy and think to yourself, I'd love to take him to bed, then I'd say you're Bi.
I don't think about anything but putting his cock in my mouth and getting him off. Since I switch, I'd also love a sub cocksucker to worship mine.