What three things do you want your partner to know about sucking your cock?

disagree

 

Can you elaborate further Piaf?I have to admit,if I'm giving a guy a BJ (and nothing else is happening)its not a huge turn on for me (I'm a female)It might be for the guy,and mentally for me its nice I'm giving pleasure to the guy,but physically for me?No.

 

As much tongue as possible along the underside of my shaft. that little patch of skin is more sensitive than the head for me...

Suck HARD. and with tongue.

more eye contact. let me know you want it and LOVE IT!!!

DEEPER.

SWALLOW!!!!

 

I've experienced that a few times, yes we do enjoy that.

 

The Key is to never fake an orgasm. and Talk about what you'd like to change either during sex or later on during that day. But don't pretend because he'll just keep doing the same thing that doesn't work and you won't be satisfied.

 

1. Warm "Her" up first. Foreplay Always Seems to Work
2. Take Your Time, Stay there all day if you need to-- just show that you appreciate it
3. Be talented, use your two fingers on occasion when you licking on the clit
4. Never under any circumstances use an alcohol based mouthwash like Listerine directly before giving your girl head-- unless you hate her
5. Stop for a Kiss. And then go again.

 

WOW! What great posts Sunlight!!

I couldn't agree more with your five points above.

As for rimming, I'm in heaven when probing my wife's tight pink arsehole with my tongue. She loves it, even though she thinks it's an extremely naughty thing to do and I love it BECAUSE it's an extremely naughty (and erotic) thing to do. I've just got a hard on thinking about the last time I rimmed her as she presented herself naked, and on all fours to me; Yum Yum!!!

 

1. No teeth.
2. Did I mention "no teeth"?!
3. Be gentle but persitstent, make eye contact, don't forget the scrotum.

 

I recently got a random text from an ex wanting to meet up again and fool around. I don't remember our sex being that fantastic and when I asked him why, he said that when he jerks off, 9 times out of 10, he thinks about the time I gave him head while he was watching a baseball game and then let him finish watching the game.

 

you are very pretty- can't say that I blame him

 

A few guys on here have complained that there are too many ways and every girl is different. But there are some universal points made here in this thread I'd like to point out. None of these directions are going to "rub a girl the wrong way" even if their not her preferred way to be eaten out.


-Starting slow and taking your time

-Being shaved

-Using 2 or 3 fingers while licking her

-When she is responding well and close to orgasm stick to what you are doing and don't change it up

-Sucking on the clitoris

-Circular motions with the tongue

-Making sounds like you're enjoying it. (But, it's the guys that genuinely enjoy it that are great at it)

-Pulling her pussy into your face

-Feeling up the rest of her body

Can't go wrong with any of these ( ) )lllllllllD ~ {}

 

Fantastic post HSM.

Thank you X

 

I should add that I shaved my wife's pussy (at her request but I had NO complaints!) over ten years ago and the oral sex has been so much better for her since then.

As for me;a lovely shaven pussy is the most beautiful sight in the world and I would lick her out every day if she wanted me to.

Any more advice HSM regarding us men looking after you ladies?

 

My wife said the same thing I would have to say if you enjoy it ,it doesn't matter who's mouth it is. I found it exhilarating and really enjoyed it. So they did to. I savor the time. Not just doing it. They seem to cum to fast!

 

Now now, I can't give it all away

 

I want to be seduced by your want of needing my pussy in your mouth. I want your kisses and to make your way down to my lovey fluffy pussy and squeeze the nice mound of my pussy before he opens it and sees the dripping wetness that he has built up inside me.. I want him to lick the outside of my labia an slowly get little slick licks of my juices making his way ever closer to my clit. And make tiny swirls around my little clit and lick it like he's going to dehydrate if he doesn't get and swallow every drop. Then make his way to my tight hole and sticks his tounge in my vagina rubbing my clit with his thumb. Then make his way back to my clit and lick on it with the tip of his tounge and with then whole tongue in long strokes rough and hard. I want him to lick my ass and play with it.. Then start fingering my pussy as he hats me out. Then give me those fingers to suck my juices off and taste the pleasure he has taken from my body. I want his wet kisses and face soaked I'm my juice.then i want him to finger me fast and hard while licking my clit till I cum all over his face. And afterwards give me a long passionate wet slippery kiss. That is how I like it.. And he does a damn good job. so nice

 

1: When you sense that I am about to come, insert your middle finger into my anus as deep as you can get it in. A little rough thrusting would also be nice.
2: When I have unloaded in your mouth, squeegee the underside of my cock with your fingertip to get every last drop of my come.
3: Show me that you are the alpha bitch in our bedroom by giving me a long, deep tongue kiss and pushing my load of come into my mouth. Don't stop tongue fucking my mouth till you have made me swallow all of my own come.

 

Using porn as a tutor is a total joke in my opinion. They are working on what looks good, not what feels good. I have never seen any oral in a porn (lesbian or otherwise) that would get me off, and sadly most of the guys who have done it on me were obviously pupils of porn. The best I ever had was from a 48 year old man when I was 20 about 12 years ago. Im sure he learned his stuff by doing instead of watching as he was learning well before the age internet porn. This is all pointless though as most guys claim they love it but rarely do it.


To be fair, i did see an amateur video once where they guy was almost spot on. Other than that, I usually hate this type advice being given because it breeds false confidence while promoting incompetence.

 

Most ladies fake it because they know it isnt going anywhere and they want to come across as a sex goddess instead of a prudish woman who can't come, while protecting egos. So they learn to look at it as foreplay. Just looking at many of the tips given on here should tell you that. Many of the tips have little to do with the actual act, like talk dirty to me, bite me, play with tits, ass, rub belly, call names, etc...They're all about getting them more horny for the cock, not about getting off during the act. Not because they dont want to, but it seems impossible, especially with the shitty implications of not getting off.


And everyone is saying it "just goes to show how different every woman is" due to these answers and disagreements about turn ons, as if its some impossibility because of that. Those are TURN ONS, not tecniques, so of course those will vary. But when it comes to getting a woman to climax through oral abilities, it doesnt vary as much as people act like it does. Otherwise we'd have no one who is good at it because they are all too different to know what to do, and according to lesbians, thats not true...


The problem is, many people are lazy and too butthurt to get real.