Wife Swapping In A Marriage Good Idea?

I belong to a swingers club and have been for many years. Part of being a member is having an open minded relationship between you and your significant other. This lifestyle isn't for everyone, but for those who enjoy it its been fantastic for us. Meeting new people and making friends within this lifestyle community has been a lot of fun for us. Part of the excitement is finding other couples that have the same interest as you to share whatever it is that you're into. For me and my girlfriend we enjoyed swapping with other couples. She also enjoys having a threesome with me and another female for my enjoyment and she also likes being with two guys at the same time for her pleasure.

My girlfriend is a "size queen" so we have opportunities within this lifestyle to meet other guys that has a sizable package that she can engage with. We love going to private sex parties and enjoy trying new adventurous things as well.

My question to you Asha is did you enjoy being with another guy while your EX watched? What was your experience like and what would you like to experience going forward? I'm open to any questions anyone may have and I'm willing to share my experiences within this lifestyle..

 

Yes, well i read Her comment to mean exactly what she said, and i have no idea why anyone would actually think she meant otherwise, she even broke it down into pieces so we did know exactly what you meant.

 

Yes, well, like I've already stated, without emotion in text the contrast and perception changes depending on the how an individual reads or interprets the text. And you know what? Who. Fucking. Cares. If you're upset by this go get a shovel and dig a hole or something, the Internet is not the place for you.

 

Beware of the green-eyed monster. If he's there, lurking, he will eventually make his presence known.

 

My husband and I swap sexual partners all the time. We have a couple that we are intimate with who live not 10 minutes away. They too are Bisexual and we have wonderful times together. There are times when the hubby and Mike leave for a weekend on their motorcycles for some man time and Susan and I have some girl fun. We all of us are together I will spend the entire night with Mike and Susan and hubby spend the night at their house. .

 

So you're a wife with a username hungforyou. Right. I totally believe your story.

 

Of course not, my husband and I share this site. So we both can see what the other is writing.

 

Awwh, how cute.

I don't believe it though.

 

Couples accounts always turn out to be male only.

 

Swinger site lesson 101.

 

Could be about laundry, she may take great pride, in removing stains, using organic detergent and home made fabric softener, then of course finally finding a sunny spot in the back yard where your laundry is hung for you

 

I prefer to have sex with guys I dont know, and will never see again

Fuck your friends and its a little too much like incest

How are you supposed to sit down to dinner over a nice risotto and glass of wine, bond with casual conversation about 17th century France or worse his feelings....if you're just remembering the whole time what your cum looks like all over his face?

 

Some friends are awesome though. When I was late teen early twenties and my female friends were like oh she's really into girls, they all came flocking with bisexuality. I wouldn't go there with many, but then a couple of my really best gfs, yeah sure.

Though it's not like I was standing up squirting girl cum over their faces.

 

My wife and I have done "swapping" but this only really happens at the swing club. Otherwise, she sees other men, whether I watch or not, and I see other women. As far as swapping being good for a marriage, that depends a lot on the couples involved.

If the play between the couples is enhancing their marriages and friendships, then yes it's a good thing. If it is used to try to make a bad marriage better, then no. I don't see adult play time as a bad thing. and it can be a lot of fun with the right people.

 

I think for me,its all about commitment.I wouldnt want my husband screwing around with anyone else,whether it was him having an affair,or suggesting wife swapping.If our sex life became boring,then I would hope we would spice things up ourselves,not having to involve anyone else into the equation.Sex is part of our relationship,its not everything.We have other activities we enjoy doing together,like travelling,going for walks,going to gigs,the theatre etc.
I guess each to their own,but can I ask those who swing this?Why bother entering into a permanant relationship with "one"person,when you could just stay single and screw around to your hearts content,without any complication of your partner possibly causing issues?