Is it possible to find only one woman beautiful or only one man handsome

and kinder, too.

 

It was two years ago when I replied to this thread. I still hold the same view in regards to this topic, and now that I've been in a wonderful relationship for over two years with the same girl, I can repeat what I said with more intensity than ever. One thing that I personally have noticed is that, whenever I come across a very attractive girl now, my feelings for my girlfriend intensifies. It's like, when I see a gorgeous girl wearing tight shorts and I can see her cute sexy ass, for example, my first reaction would be "holy shit!", and that is followed by "baby(my girlfriend), I want you NOW!!" lol This seems to be the case every time for me. I can find other girls attractive(physically/intellectually), but the one I actually WANT is my girlfriend. And for some reason, these other girls somehow intensify my feelings for her. I just know that my girlfriend has it all: looks, personality, compatibility. So it's kind of like, I can totally recognize beauty in other people but my girlfriend will always be, for the lack of a better term, "above" them all for a simple reason that she's my girlfriend and not them. I guess is a biased way of looking at this whole thing in a way, but at least I can still recognize beauty in others which I think is a more healthy way of living life.

 

Totally agree with alternative. Myself and my partner don't see anyone else's in a sexual way. Sure we comment on other peoples attractiveness but we don't think of sleeping with them. My man says that in his eyes there is no girl more attractive than me and you know what, I believe him. Not to blow my own trumpet but I know I'm a looker I also know there are girls more attractive than me yet I still believe that in his eyes there isn't. Why. Because I feel exactly the same. We're head over heels in love and no one else compares.

 

The concept is very silly....There are many beautiful looking people in the world. I can step out of my door and see handsome men and beautiful girls on the street, but I think what this song is trying to say is something a little bit different.....also, beauty is always a matter of perspective.....I have known attractive looking people who acted ugly and that made them so, and I have known people who were not thought of as attractive by the majority, but how they were inside made them beautiful.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63nlhoda2MY

 

In this movie "Heartbreakers" Jennifer Love Hewitt plays this character Page Conners who has a line that goes like:

I think that may be true to some extent. Love has to do with our loyalty to one another I think.

 

Sounds like it could be a guilt trip. I'm married, but I'm not dead. I'm curious though....Are you so hot looking that all other women are just mediocre? And how strong are both your sex drives? Some people have very low libidos.

 

I think that is true for some....crazy hormones and sex get mistaken as love.....I am talking about real love.....the kind that is deep...the kind that lasts forever...the kind that cannot be destroyed.....haven't you ever truly loved someone? It is not something anyone can be guilt tripped into.

 

Don't you think it's possible that real love is nothing but hormones and chemicals that we have blown up in our minds to be something supernatural? I think your version of true love is beautiful. I just don't know if I'll ever find it, so I wonder about this alternative definition that Page Conner proposes in "Heartbreakers".

 

I don't know what Heartbreakers is........but I have seen what I am talking about and feel it.....so I know it exists.....It gives freedom to whom you
love to do as they want to be themselves.....and you still love them.....That never changes.....It is not obsessive or ownership or competition...that is not love.....

You will l know what i mean some day, I am pretty sure.

 

Your guy sounds too good to be true, If a guy told me that id think he's doing sneaky things and thinks im naive. Everyone can glance at people, we are only human but refraining from making comments about other women to his friends is just decency, not all men try to prove they are a man to there friends behind there gf's back which are essentially all those comments are doing. I say look on his computer and see what you find, yes its dam rude but just do it to at least to prove to yourself that you were wrong. Unless this guy is a total wizzard and only browses on incognito mode you will find something of a woman, and once you find this all your trust is gone and you will feel like shit for a long time. Then you realise two can play at this game and life goes on.

 

Of course this is possible, everything is possible.

 

no

 

Not common but yes, it is very possible.

 

Of course it's not possible! I mean DH is the most gorgeous man I've ever seen, but I have seen other gorgeour men.

 

My husband is attractive to me,but there are literally thousands/millions of other guys I could be attracted to,physically and mentally.