I've been friends with a couple of lesbians. Or rather a couple of girls who dated other girls. And were basically bisexual. Complete lesbians I've come across just seem a different species. Can't say I like them. They seem disturbed and militant man haters with a giant chip on the shoulder/agenda. I'd say I pity them.
Define "come across". Like, what does that mean? You pass them in the street or you've tried chatting them up only to be rejected? Or online? Was it at a bar, a wedding? Elaboration required. I've come across your post and I pity you. I think to come across something is really just an acknowledgment. There's no underlining appreciation there. You may as well say "from what I've read"... Complete lesbians, which is absurd anyway I mean you're either a lesbian or not a lesbian.. are all disturbed man haters. And I don't think all lesbians who are that way are that way simply because they like other women. There's something else there.. probably stupid judgemental shit thrown at them like that. How we all are today, I believe, stems from that time in our lives when experiences and impressions really start to shape who we are. Sort of like when a dog is "gun shy". It's not disturbed, it's just that something in its impressionable stage of life has happened that's effected it, and it just hasn't had the training to overcome this so it is now afraid of loud noises. I'd take out the word "training" and insert the word "support". She's never had the support needed to overcome the bad impressions that are now ever lasting. It's really not as simple nor clear cut as you make it out to be. I think my age bracket of gay girls are more accepting because there's a higher number percentage of society who accepts us, so we don't have this grudge. But the elderly gay girls weren't given this treatment. I've never known a gay girl say 25-35 who was this militant man hater you speak of. I may come across as the stereotype right now defending it, but that's just because I read something stupid and it's that stupid attitude that I perceive, that would make gay girls have a sour impression on males. I don't think there'd be one gay girl out there that earnestly believes women should be with women. Truth is, we don't care about anybodies sexuality but our own... I think anyway. Whatever bad attitude someone has in life, there's a reason for it.
Blanket statements are about hatred, so I apologize to the lesbians out there for the like on that post. I am not one myself, but you are too much and I don't like you. Didn't you just say you didn't like the homeless? I suggest you go somewhere else then where there are no homeless. This country does not need an attitude like yours. You are the law as you said. I am out then.
Anyone who hates the homeless is completely fucked up. There's no excuse whatsoever for a government allowing anyone to be without a home in this day. Back on lesbianism, I can only talk about the ones I've met and seen. I'm thinking the ones who beat up their girlfriends for being bi. The ones who say "all men are bastards". The ones who ape male "street thug" behaviour and attack others in bars. The ones that transmute a hatred of themselves into a radical hatred of others -whether its by sex, bisexuality, race, nationality or whatever. Ones who use it as a lever over others in career advancement eg the police. Deep down they know what they want to be, but they can't admit it themselves. Bi girls I've always found are nice, tolerant, good natured. Finally, I think people need to actually consider why lesbianism etc is being promoted as "fashionable".
I know two girls who look like lipstick lesbians, but the are not. They are true lesbians. They are faithful lesbians. That's too bad, because I would have sex with either one.
Lol. Who's Moonglow referring to, talking about homeless people? I can't find anything. I mean I'm sure it's directed at me, but I can't find anything I wrote about hating the homeless.
What do I think about lesbians? Like all people lesbians' individuality needs to be respected, and an individual evaluated on their own merits. So, IMO it depend on whether they know how to open a beer and cook.
Sometimes I think it's a shame. Just because there are some lesbians I find attractive. Not that being a lesbian is any less attractive, no just not any longer an option.
I know several guys who like watching them online, kind of common. Doesn't do anything for me. I've always treated lesbians respectfully, but I have known a few who were disrespectful towards me. Used to work with one who said if she ever wanted a guy, she would pick me! She said this in front of my co-workers lol! She was cute, and very fun. We were an eight person 2nd shift crew, and after lunch sometimes we would drive to the other building to finish up there. She always rode with me. I was married, had I known how that was going I could have had her and I leave early on a slow night and made out. Every time we rode together she would just smile...she really liked me! Wish I'd have done her now. But any other lesbians I've been around much have downright shunned me. One was my guitar teacher's partner, I think she hated me. Before I quit, the feeling was mutual. I go to town with her brother sometimes, we are neighbors and friends. But when he stops at her house, I'll wait in the van. I have absolutely no time for her. I don't let negativity into my life. As my daughter says, "Ain't nobody got time for that!".
Sometimes I think I'm a lesbian trapped in a male heterosexual mind/body.I love the way I've seen them kiss in porn.So tender,sensual and given over to wild abandonment.
Sometimes I am disappointed that an attractive woman is taken out of the pool of fish for me to choose from but I guess gays even out that number so it's not so bad. As for anything else about them...I don't care what they do.
Honestly? There is really no such thing. Or if there is it's for reasons other than sexuality. All women are bisexual. It is just to what degree. I have been with dozens of women. Every single one of them claim to be lesbians to varying degrees. But you give them a boy to play with, or at the very least a young sissy, and all of a sudden they love penis. It is more about controlling their own world without men than it is a desire to give up straight sex. I think it has to do with just want purity and beauty. Which is why their obsession with males is so concentrated on youth. As a matter of fact when they are depressed is when they want straight sex most of all.