Tell Me About Falling In Love, Etc.

Sorry... I don't recall.

 

Lol, so basically ugly chics, or ones that are crap in bed have great personalities

 

Ugly and bed shitting are 2 things of which I have no experience.

 

See what I did there, got you to go from "wasnt that special pysical atraction" to I dont do Ugly

 

do you mean falling in love or "falling in love?" if the former, i and most people have no experience. if the latter, then there's not much to say about it. it's just that thing that women do with assholes and men do with women who are waiting to "fall in love" with assholes.

 

Falling in love, not falling in bed

 

Unless there is a town somewhere called iove, be a.placenwme it would have a capital I

And look like its spelt Iove, no doubt someone has at sometime fallen there

Man, I have way too much time on my hands

 

Erghh, spell check on this thing

Screw you Samsung, screw all of Korea

 

Congrats! You just described the stereotype of the desperate women that crave a family or relationship or those that do not want to be left behind.

What you explained here is the exact opposite of when people do so because they fell in love No suprise really

I read thus I react : what you did here was try to make him look like he doesn't do ugly. How it reads to me is he is not trapped in your narrow corner of superficial physical attraction

 

It's not that far from Australia. Give it a try.

 

I am normally on a Samsung tablet and omfg the spell check on these things is the worst! Sometimes I have to retype whole sentences because it changed almost every word!

 

What's the difference between falling in love and "falling in love"? The way I see it, I've been infatuated several times before and then I committed to those people and didn't want to give up on those relationships once I'd put so much into them. I grew to love the guy I was in a several years long relationship with, but I also didn't really know him until several years in, so I was loving an idea of him, I was loving those few moments of intense highs and trying to not base everything on the absolutely horrible, chaotic lows. I wanted the best for him and "us", but I didn't easily accept that he was horrible for me and didn't want to feel like I was a quitter, didn't want to feel like I was someone who would abandon someone when they "needed" me...in otherwords, codependency and my desire to "save him" kept me holding on...also the vision of him that I had in my mind.

In this situation, there's so much to say. I had no desire to "fall in love", my idea was to start dating. Just to see how I would handle it, see what kinds of guys were out there and find out what I really wanted from a man. I met a bunch of guys before I met him, but once I met him, I really had to force this idea of continuing to date other men and it got to a point fairly quickly where I realized it was completely pointless for me to see the other guys again. I didn't go out with another guy after I met him.

I didn't want to fall in love, I didn't think I was ready for it, but I met my match and as much as I was afraid of something serious and being vulnerable and all that, it has all come quite naturally, my gut has always given me the best feelings about him and it is pointless for me to keep struggling between my heart and my mind, trying to push someone away that I really, really want. He's been telling me in every way possible that he loves me, without really saying it (except when it slipped out and he found a way to cover it) for 2+ weeks now, finally I was able to admit to myself that this is where I am and I'm lucky to be here. I felt it weeks ago. I'm in love with the kindest, smartest, most understanding, most compatible man I've ever met and he loves me hard.

--feelinglikehoneyagain

 

Well, next guy you meet, just stick to one paragraph a day

 

Lol don't know if you remember what happened to me in Korea but... I couldn't agree more. XD

 

I met the love of my life about a year ago. Since then, my life has changed in so many ways for the better. It really is the first 100% healthy and happy relationship I have been in. We are a team, we work together, we love and respect each other, but most importantly we are each others best friend. He's not perfect, but he's perfect for me. From the beginning it felt different. There was no uncertainty or confusion. I can't wait to spend my whole life with this person!